Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
He may have some valid insights on life, but then again, who doesn't?Law 27: Play on People’s Need to Believe to Create a Cultlike Following
People have an overwhelming desire to believe in something. Become the focal point of such desire by offering them a cause, a new faith to follow. Keep your words vague but full of promise; emphasize enthusiasm over rationality and clear thinking. Give your new disciples rituals to perform, ask them to make sacrifices on your behalf. In the absence of organized religion and grand causes, your new belief system will bring you untold power.
Law 32: Play to People’s Fantasies
The truth is often avoided because it is ugly and unpleasant. Never appeal to truth and reality unless you are prepared for the anger that comes for disenchantment. Life is so harsh and distressing that people who can manufacture romance or conjure up fantasy are like oases in the desert: Everyone flocks to them. There is great power in tapping into the fantasies of the masses.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
haha he was aiming for 365 Silver Rolss Royces! And yes he says all conditions from the past should be cleaned so a new being is born. I like that, because if women could drop all ideas of being sluts , used and so on, you men would get more sex! In fact, he says everyone should be naked and have sex in the street, everywhere, whenever they feel like. Also he said that if this can happen, perversions would stop immediately, and pornography would have no attraction. He even violated the Holy Bible, he said that it had 500 pages of preached pornography, which is absolutely true!Beowolf said:Do you mean that tiny dweesh who thought he was God, who had 90+ Rolls Royces, preached sexual violence, arrogantly violated public laws, used biological poisoning againest local residents, and had armed guards wielding semiautomatic weapons?
These are the stupid laws by politics, which is absolutely stupid. Politics by its nature is manipulative, stupid.Deep Dish said:Chandra Mohan Jain, a.k.a. Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh, a.k.a. Acharya Rajneesh, a.k.a. Osho, is a cult leader.He may have some valid insights on life, but then again, who doesn't?
The 48 Laws of Power disagree with you. The laws of power are all around us, right now, in each and every interaction. The laws are amoral, good and evil play from the same playbook. The game of power is inescapable, and we are all players. "If the game of power is inescapable, better to be an artist than a denier or a bungler."Olivia said:These are the stupid laws by politics, which is absolutely stupid. Politics by its nature is manipulative, stupid.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thanks for the info.( . )( . ) said:That reminds me. All these unwashed "mystics" in these 3rd world sh!t holes would be having a field day with all these backpacking SWPL's trying to "find themselves" and God/s in anything and everything except the bible. Fvck game, setup a straw hut in some dark continent, spit out some gobbledygook to have the young white libtard thinking your some deep guru and watch the panties drop. Seems to be a prequisite now for every future cat herder to muck about in these foreign cesspits, also probably explains the influx in news stories of all these clueless Western chicks getting raped and murdered overseas. Making the simple mistake that men from other countries will play as nice as the neutered, emasculated Western men she grew up with.
Honestly feel a bit sorry for the poor b!tches when you think about how badly their men back home have let them down.