"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Orthodox Priest Talks about Working w/ red-pilled/black-pilled guys

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Skip to 42 min to that point:

I like Father Hans, he's one of the few Ortho priests on Youtube that knows how to contextualize the red-pill, etc, dynamics.

Of course, he is against casual sex and P.

However, I see some reconsiliation between seduction and religion.

Seduction can of course be used within the context of dating especially if you are part of the generation that is no longer chaste such as myself.

We spent some time developing our skills in the wild, now we are trying to align to something greater than ourselves including our hunger for sex.

As a DJ in my 30s now, I don't feel as into the pursuit as much as I used to be.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I’m really glad organized traditional religion is coming back because the heretical fringe non denominational churches were staining Christianity.
When there is chaos all around you, it's the oldest, time-tested, structured models that can help orient you particularly when it comes to faith. That's how I see orthodoxy. In a world of constant flux, it is one of the only things with continuity.
 
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