"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Orion aka PsyHacks admits being wrong about Passport bros

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Yes, a person with a Ph.D. in psychology can be called a doctor.
Obviously, but not my point.

When most people hear "doctor" they think medical doctor.

If you introduced yourself as "Doctor Epicenter" and people later found out you had your doctorate in psychology, they'd think you were a bit sus.

This dude starts every video with "Hi I'm Doctor whateverhisnameis..."

He's flexing his credentials to get more YouTube views.

AND as others have already pointed out. none of what he talks about he learned during his psychology training.

It's just the same rehashed red pill stuff he picked up elsewhere.

On the other hand, you DO have "legit" doctors on you tube giving actual medical advice from knowledge they DID learn in medical school.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Obviously, but not my point.

When most people hear "doctor" they think medical doctor.

If you introduced yourself as "Doctor Epicenter" and people later found out you had your doctorate in psychology, they'd think you were a bit sus.

This dude starts every video with "Hi I'm Doctor whateverhisnameis..."

He's flexing his credentials to get more YouTube views.

AND as others have already pointed out. none of what he talks about he learned during his psychology training.

It's just the same rehashed red pill stuff he picked up elsewhere.

On the other hand, you DO have "legit" doctors on you tube giving actual medical advice from knowledge they DID learn in medical school.
Dude psychology is a woke field. So you actually abandon your reputation by going red pill as a doc. That is why what he is doing is actually special. Most psychologists are lying pieces of shiit.

Of course he should show his credentials because youtube is full of faking low lives.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I lived in Japan for over ten years.

Long enough to get past the "honeymoon" phase and take off the rose colored glasses.
Another poster claimed the dude in the video mixed "being interested" with "being polite". You lived in Japan a long time. What do you think?
 
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"I'm not unattractive" - LOL ... BS
The last sentence gives him away as charlatan, he went out of character with that statement.
I lived in Japan for over ten years.
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There are a subsection of J-girls who are called "gaijin hunters" who sleep with foreigners for the excitement, similar to how western girls go to foreign countries and bang randos.
Maybe there's some context I'm missing about "I'm not unattractive". But it sounds like his sex appeal could be significantly higher as one of the rare foreigners in Japan, especially to girls who want to sleep with foreigners.
 

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Another poster claimed the dude in the video mixed "being interested" with "being polite". You lived in Japan a long time. What do you think?
I believe that to be absolutely correct.

Dudes already WAY overestimate and misunderstand polite behavior for attraction.

People in Japan are very polite (superficially), which can easily be misunderstood as attraction.

And if you combine the slim figure and well dressed nature of most J-girls, for "newcomers" it seems like they've found heaven.

But the type of J-ladies who hook up long term with foreigners don't tend to be the cream of the crop.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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