Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Original Pick-up lines

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This thread is for original pickup lines that you have come up with.

No rose's are red, violets are blue crap here.

Has to be original and should be used for situations of picking women up, opening them, singling them out from other guys or their group.

If you have field tested them and even if it failed post the attempt anyway if you think the line is original.

Let the games begin!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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one that i made for my friend yesterday night when he bumped into his ex.

saw this hot blonde hb8.8

a guy was talking to her and it was clear they weren't together so we were going to trying to isolate her away from him.

take your phone in your hand. cover it with ur whole hand (unless you have a gigantic phone this should work) walk over to her and bend down next to her like ur picking up something.

dj:excuse me(interrupt them)
i think you dropped your phone.
don't show her the phone just hold it by ur side in your hand.
HB:i don't think so.....(anxiously checks her pockets/handbag)
dj:(since it's a club atmosphere and you don't want to scream...whisper in her ear.) I know, i just wanted to dance with you. (smile and stick ur hand out and lead her to the floor.)
 

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I'm trying to pick you up. I'm not doing very well, am I?



/sarcasm
Pickup lines are lame. Sorry. Not sure why we'd be discussing pickup lines on a DJ forum. Not even PUAs use pickup line type crap. They open, sure, but they don't 'pick up'.
 

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they are all generally termed pickup lines but they don't have to be a line that will pick up chicks.

Any line that you think is original that you think can increase your chances.

an opener that can lead eventually to a convo/number.
a way to pull her away from a bunch of guys that are hitting on her.
or just a line that will give you a good laugh and you always wanted to try out.

my one friend who used to volunteer at a hospital and had to work with a def kid learned sign language.

at a bar once last year a random girl approached him with some small talk and he started signing. and smiling and one of our girl friends would just translate some total bull**** that the other girl was eating up. later on in the night when they were leaving our friend the girl said he "signed" for her number and she wrote it down and gave it to him and we left.

we saw her outside and my friend that was doing the sign language talk the whole time goes. "Nice to meet you, i'll give you a call sometime." she was soo shocked and she said you never told em you could speak and he said "you never asked." we then went to the next bar.
 
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