electric73
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check this guys for a total dilemma...
girl with bf (AFC) meets me as she is friends with my current gf of the time. we all head out for good times, partying, dinners, cinema etc and all get on great. i immediately want to fcuk this girl as soon as i set eyes on her (9 months ago).
i control myself but end up feeling more passionately about her than i do about my current gf and this is very apparent to me when the four of us are out together. i feel i should be having those kind of feelings about my gf and, also because of a few other reasons, finish that relationship.
we all continue to mix in the same circles and my feelings get stronger and stronger for this girl. about 2 months ago she starts to make it clear that she feels very sexually attracted to me also by flirting, talking filth in my ear and kissing/touching me while we're out and emailing me during the days.
so, i'm single and she's with the bf. we all go out with other friends of mine last week and, after lots of flirting at a party, end up having a foursome with another female friend of mine although really it's more of a two on two. the bf is consenting to me getting it on with his gf. she is excellent in bed btw.
now, however the gf wants to meet to fcuk again in secret (just the two of us). she's been with the bf for 4 years and states "he's the love of my life but he's not doing it for me in bed at all, he's unadventurous".
i so would fcuk her again but it's become not just about sex for me. my feelings have developed over time. i've thought about all of it, the consequences, the damage, the hurt etc. and it feels too bad to carry through. one, two or all of us are going to get hurt.
she says she wants to get to know me better and that she is desperate (her words) to fcuk me. she's not thinking any of it through (as it would make her feel too guilty) and so i'm doing all the thinking for both of us. so far i haven't done anything with her that her bf doesn't know about so have a fairly clear conscience. all that has happened is a few phone calls of intense discussion and planning to have sex.
i know that i should say "go deal with your relationship and then when you're single we'll see" but i'm having it big time for this girl.
she keeps telling me not to analyse it and to just enjoy the fcuk and we'll handle the consequences later. her typical thinking is: "god, everything was cool, i never even looked at anyone else and then you come along and totally blow me away, i can't concentrate on my work and you're in my head 24/7"
by the way, i usually get very hot girls and have plenty of offers every time i go out. i usually play it dj but in this case i've lost my touch with the game.
wtf?????
girl with bf (AFC) meets me as she is friends with my current gf of the time. we all head out for good times, partying, dinners, cinema etc and all get on great. i immediately want to fcuk this girl as soon as i set eyes on her (9 months ago).
i control myself but end up feeling more passionately about her than i do about my current gf and this is very apparent to me when the four of us are out together. i feel i should be having those kind of feelings about my gf and, also because of a few other reasons, finish that relationship.
we all continue to mix in the same circles and my feelings get stronger and stronger for this girl. about 2 months ago she starts to make it clear that she feels very sexually attracted to me also by flirting, talking filth in my ear and kissing/touching me while we're out and emailing me during the days.
so, i'm single and she's with the bf. we all go out with other friends of mine last week and, after lots of flirting at a party, end up having a foursome with another female friend of mine although really it's more of a two on two. the bf is consenting to me getting it on with his gf. she is excellent in bed btw.
now, however the gf wants to meet to fcuk again in secret (just the two of us). she's been with the bf for 4 years and states "he's the love of my life but he's not doing it for me in bed at all, he's unadventurous".
i so would fcuk her again but it's become not just about sex for me. my feelings have developed over time. i've thought about all of it, the consequences, the damage, the hurt etc. and it feels too bad to carry through. one, two or all of us are going to get hurt.
she says she wants to get to know me better and that she is desperate (her words) to fcuk me. she's not thinking any of it through (as it would make her feel too guilty) and so i'm doing all the thinking for both of us. so far i haven't done anything with her that her bf doesn't know about so have a fairly clear conscience. all that has happened is a few phone calls of intense discussion and planning to have sex.
i know that i should say "go deal with your relationship and then when you're single we'll see" but i'm having it big time for this girl.
she keeps telling me not to analyse it and to just enjoy the fcuk and we'll handle the consequences later. her typical thinking is: "god, everything was cool, i never even looked at anyone else and then you come along and totally blow me away, i can't concentrate on my work and you're in my head 24/7"
by the way, i usually get very hot girls and have plenty of offers every time i go out. i usually play it dj but in this case i've lost my touch with the game.
wtf?????