"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Orgasming[I'm a teenager] causes headaches...?

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This is honestly a real concern of mine. This topic is based mainly around masturbating, so lets hope none fo you have a problem discussing this openly.

I sued to be a once a day masturbator..but recently, starting like a month or 2 ago, whenever I ama bout to reach the orgasm, I've gotten these killer headaches. They used to be so bad I had to lie down and I'd try to go to sleep[Advil does nothing], but once they started I slowed down.
So up until these staretd about 2 motnhs ago, I was a once aday man..Now I've gotten back to about every other day/every third day.
The headaches aren't as bad, but they're still there. Now they jsut feel liek a throbbing in my head, like someone punched me in the temple 10 minutes ago[dunno if it would still hurt lol, but its my attempt at explaining it].

Now my question: do you know the reasoning behind these headaches? I'm gonna take a guess that since i already cutback and the headaches aren't as bad now, I should cutback further/stop all together[and rely on the femals for this..].
Another question: if I'm going to be having sex soon, do you think these headaches will still come?[no pun intended lol] or do you think I'll be so overwhelmed that I won't even notice a minor headache..?
anyone else ever gotten these symptoms?
thank you all..peace.
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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:eek: Go to see a doctor.
 

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I get that if I've been drinking (not huge amounts). I put it down to higher blood pressure due to the beer and the stimulation.

Also I had a habit of holding my breath around climax time (not advisable)

I'd get your blood pressure checked

My ex used to get it too, but it was usually before we even started :D
 

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lol well i've spoken to other people who have ahd the exact same thign happen, but I just trying to get a good answer from you guys lol, which some real value that jsut hearing that it happens to others as well.
 

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that sounds very un-usual for a 16 year old? when I was 16 it had no effect on me, no headaches.:confused:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Alpine
My ex used to get it too, but it was usually before we even started :D
hahahah!! :D


Man you must be a stud getting her near to orgasm even before starting :p
 

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It does have something to do with blood pressure. Definitely go talk to your doctor.
 

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How do I explain to my doctor "when I've been beating off I seem to get killer headaches right as I'm abotu to orgasm"?lol
and form further research online, I've found a site saying its probably a Benign sex headache ...but then ti goes to say that this only happens int he range of 18-35yr old people.
I really don't want to go to a doctor...I'm gonna stop fro a week or to and try it out again[though..chances are I'm losing ym v-card tomorrow..]. if it happens after 2 weeks of no stimulation, I'm prob gonna try n talk to a doctor.
Any more input?
 

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Originally posted by Patrick124
How do I explain to my doctor "when I've been beating off I seem to get killer headaches right as I'm abotu to orgasm"?lol
Your doctor puts his finger up people's *******s. He doesn't give a f*ck that you beat off.
 

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Who the fvck cares how you have an orgasm??!!! :rolleyes: Just tell him that you get a headache whenever you orgasm. It's not that hard to do...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i don't know but right after im done sometimes my ears ring, anyone else get ringing ears?
 

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Patrick. i get an ache in the back of my head when im about to orgasm only when im thinking too much. this happens when im making a porno movie starring me inside my head, you know me fuicking the girl. is this the case with you?
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Who the fvck cares how you have an orgasm??!!! :rolleyes: Just tell him that you get a headache whenever you orgasm. It's not that hard to do...
Agreed. Doctors see worse sh!t you could imagine. Literally too.

Plus, the BIG majority of people masturbate. Nothing to be ashamed of.
 
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