Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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lynx

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Twice in my life, I've spent a period of six months or more in Italy. While living there, I felt very healthy, didn't get fat, and I found it easy to stay in shape despite eating a lot more than I do in the United States. In the US, however, I find that I have to work out extra hard in order not to get fat. Last summer, I spent one month in Eastern Europe and didn't gain any weight despite eating generously. From my conversations with people in Europe, I've found that Europeans are greatly opposed to processed foods. Some of them say that processed foods make you fat whereas natural, non-processed foods keep you healthier. I don't know if that's the whole truth, but I'm going by my experiences, and I know I feel healthier in Europe than I do here. That's why I've been buying organic foods lately, and I truly feel a lot better. Make sure you know where your fruit and other groceries come from.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would have to strongly disagree with you. Organic does not mean natural. There is a ton of "natural" food that is not mechanically processed - fruits, vegetables, meats, etc.


Organic vegetables and fruit suck. Without the usage of pesticides, herbicides, and other forms of bacteria-killing, crops simply come out worse. Organic food has a much higher potential of making you sick because it is much more susceptible to crop-related problems.

Also, if u notice, in many places in europe, the obesity rate is close to (or surpasses, like in italy) that of the US.
 

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Good to hear lynx; organic foods also pack in more nutrients because of more nutrient rich soils, rather than just leaving all the growing up to the big four (Nitrogen, etc) or Hydroponic like the commercial growers do. Its all about cutting costs, which cuts out the nutrients. Sure Im paying more for organic foods, but at least Im getting what I need out of it.

Also, at a zoo it was discovered that when they put out conventional bananas and organic bananas together, the chimps/apes would pick out the organic bananas by sight and would prefer them over conventional banannas. This wasnt some food study either, this discovery was by accident.
 

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Thanks for the info, xyzzy. From my experience, Europeans eat fruits and vegetables with fewer, if any pesticides, and they do look very healthy, including Italians. Having lived in Italy, I can honestly say Italians are rarely fat. I'm talking about not just very young people. I'm talking about people in their thirties and forties. While living there, I never got sick from eating the fruit and vegetables (in fact, I probably felt healthier because of them). Besides fruits and vegetables, other foods such as pasta, tomato sauce, bread, cheese, and grains are less processed and contain organic ingredients, thus making them, in my opinion, healthier than the processed foods you find in supermarkets in the US.
 
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