oral sex??

[forcerecon01]

Do you guys pass on oral sex or is it important to perform oral sex with your partner? Is it pedestalizing women by giving oral sex to them? I prefer not to kiss and perform oral sex because I don't like it and not good at it really. What are your thoughts?

 

[Billtx49]

Forget the pedestal talk.
Some women like oral as a fore play option, some get wet just looking at you with anticipation, and everything in between those two.
Sexual compatibility usually only means a mutually agreed on process to satisfy both partners.
The importance they hold in each others life determines how far they will each go…

 

[SW15]

I perform oral sex on women and also enjoy receiving it.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

Do you guys pass on oral sex or is it important to perform oral sex with your partner? Is it pedestalizing women by giving oral sex to them? I prefer not to kiss and perform oral sex because I don't like it and not good at it really. What are your thoughts?

If you know she's clean and she does oral to you... Then there's really no reason not to if she likes it.

Not good at it? Spread her lips apart with your thumb and index finger and just focus on her cl1t.

If the taste bothers you, use a flavored lubricant.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Do you guys pass on oral sex or is it important to perform oral sex with your partner? Is it pedestalizing women by giving oral sex to them? I prefer not to kiss and perform oral sex because I don't like it and not good at it really. What are your thoughts?

In my experience, giving Ora sex sets you up as a beta sexual slave to her. I don’t give it, but I expect to receive it. Sex is about my pleasure

 

[forcerecon01]

If you know she's clean and she does oral to you... Then there's really no reason not to if she likes it.

Not good at it? Spread her lips apart with your thumb and index finger and just focus on her ****.

If the taste bothers you, use a flavored lubricant.

good idea. I'm not passionate as I could be I guess

 

[corrector]

My ex-wife pushed me to give oral sex with her, and I was always reluctant or felt grossed out by it. Its a bit gross and, yes, I do feel like its pedestalizing women and it's humiliating. I did do it once with her (she cleaned down there up a few times before I was comfortable enough) and she let me face-fvck her afterwards briefly. That was the only time I ever face-fvcked her or anyone.

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

good idea. I'm not passionate as I could be I guess

Maybe once you know you're good... You'll enjoy doing it more.

If you follow those simple instructions I just said... You'll be great.

 

[forcerecon01]

In my experience, giving Ora sex sets you up as a beta sexual slave to her. I don’t give it, but I expect to receive it. Sex is about my pleasure

my thinking exactly.

 

[forcerecon01]

Most guys are bad at giving it.

The classic 'say the alphabet when you're down there' advice is actually terrible guidance.

What you want to do is stick your tongue out, downwards, over your chin. Keep it still, and move your head up and down.

This way, more of your tongue's surface is stimulating her.

I know because I'm one of them. Im not passionate for giving it or receiving for that matter

 

[Billtx49]

Most guys are bad at giving it.

The classic 'say the alphabet when you're down there' advice is actually terrible guidance.

Yep, bad advice, but designed to get a man humming for a mild vibration effect while he’s playing hoover…

 

[Guy69JackBlue]

I know because I'm one of them. Im not passionate for giving it or receiving for that matter

Just stay on the cl1t and do nothing else.

If you need to add anything more, rub the g-spot with your fingers inside. You'll feel a spongy or "ribbed" part if you curl your fingers up.

 

[Serenity]

I don't think you're asking the right questions. It's not a matter of important or not, it's a matter of your preference and her preference. If you don't want to give then you don't, but do not expect that your way is objectively the right way and that every woman should be fine with that. Not everyone will, some will, some won't.

If you enjoy it then it's not pedestalizing, if you do it despite not liking it then it is.

So if you don't like it then that's simply something you need to filter for. You're then looking for a woman who doesn't need or desire you to perform that act. If you also want to receive oral along with not giving it then you can expect that your options are further limited, as it is with every added criteria.

I personally enjoy making a woman scream in ecstasy by giving oral, but that's me. Just like some women want it to be a part of sex while others don't, men are the same. Some want it, some do not. All you can do is find someone who's compatible.

 

[forcerecon01]

I don't think you're asking the right questions. It's not a matter of important or not, it's a matter of your preference and her preference. If you don't want to give then you don't, but do not expect that your way is objectively the right way and that every woman should be fine with that. Not everyone will, some will, some won't.

If you enjoy it then it's not pedestalizing, if you do it despite not liking it then it is.

So if you don't like it then that's simply something you need to filter for. You're then looking for a woman who doesn't need or desire you to perform that act. If you also want to receive oral along with not giving it then you can expect that your options are further limited, as it is with every added criteria.

I personally enjoy making a woman scream in ecstasy by giving oral, but that's me. Just like some women want it to be a part of sex while others don't, men are the same. Some want it, some do not. All you can do is find someone who's compatible.

great advice

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I don’t eat pu$$y.
i prefer PIV over BJ’s any day.
i never ask for BJ’s but some women seem to want/like doing it. Though more often as a warm up than to completion.

 

[Chamber36]

I noticed on ONS's women just want to feel the raw masculinity of getting d!cked down.

On the other hand how many people have had the experience of a womans legs clamping onto your head while you make them cvm with your tongue? It's funny because you can't hear anything.

Also, the raw feeling of forcing your schlong into some trollop's gullet is also quite masterful. You know, when your balls are covered in mucus and slime and pressed against her chin.

So there's something to be said for all of this.

I say pvssy licking is no good for a ONS but I'll do it if the girl is hot.

 

[RickTheToad]

I like receiving, but not crazy about giving. In my teens and 20's, even early 30's, I enjoyed giving it. Now, being in the medical field and dealing with female patient issues, I'd prefer to avoid it. Anyone in the medical field would understand.

 

[CoandaEffect]

I used to not like it, basically because I was no good at it. Then I read the book “She Comes First” and did what it says. I really enjoy it now. I find it so much fun giving her that much pleasure with my tongue and fingers. It’s hard work but when you get her to the point that her abdomen, vag and a$$ go into spasm mode and she starts screaming it’s very rewarding. Just after that it actually starts to hurt her a bit and she will make you stop very forcefully. There’s something very satisfying about that as well.

I don’t agree with the guys that say sex is about them. To me it is about giving pleasure to your partner. If she has the same mindset you will receive plenty in return. My partner gives me a fantastic bj in return.

 

[Lordeterra]

am i the only one that enjoys eating women out?

 

[Billtx49]

am i the only one that enjoys eating women out?

Not necessarily, depending on a man’s internal mindset and turn ons, cunnilingus as fore play can be equally arousing for him on a mental basis.…
He’ll likely Git Er done with a new found energy level…