"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oral sex linked to mouth cancer

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this sucks
Oral sex linked to mouth cancer: Swedish study
Nov 16

Certain cases of mouth cancer appear to be caused by a virus that can be contracted during oral sex, media reported, quoting a new Swedish study.

People who contract a high-risk variety of the human papilloma virus, HPV, during oral sex are more likely to fall ill with mouth cancer, according to a study conducted at the Malmo University Faculty of Odontology in southern Sweden.

"You should avoid having oral sex," dentist and researcher Kerstin Rosenquist, who headed the study, told Swedish news agency TT.

HPV is a wart virus that causes many cervical cancers, including endometrial cancer (in the uterus).

Comparing 132 patients with mouth cancer with a control group of 320 healthy people, Rosenquist found that 36 percent of the cancer patients were carriers of HPV while only one percent of the control group had the virus.

The main factors that contribute to mouth cancer, most commonly contracted by middle aged and older men, are smoking and drinking alcohol, scientists agree.

"But in recent years the illness has been on the rise among young individuals and we don't know why. But one could speculate that this virus (HPV) is one of the factors," Rosenquist said.

Her findings confirm other international studies in recent years.

http://www.breitbart.com/news/2005/11/16/051116213750.jnfvcpbv.html
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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whoa!

i guess i gotta chill on giving oral to too many girls.. ehh

:(

but i wonder what are the chances in general of getting that specific kind of HPV orally and so on..
 

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Originally posted by DJDamage
This is what happens when you eat lots of pvssy and you don't know where its been.

Save the eating of pvssy when you are in LTR and your girl has been tested.

DjDamage
BOOOOO

no way im giving up eating *****. its like one of the best things in the world!
 

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I never really take any of these so-called studies seriously.... If I did, I wouldn't eat, smoke or touch anything ever again.

Some people are more prone to cancers than others and there's not a god damn thing anyone can do about it.

Everyday our bodies are bombarded by thousands of microwaves and you can't tell me that THAT'S healthy.... Oral sex leads to mouth cancer hahahahaha..... Those ass holes can find links to cancer with anything, if they study it long enough.

I'm not gonna stop goin' down on my girl for fear of mouth cancer. Of course this is only in certain strains of HPV, so the study says.

Don't take everything you read as 100% truth..... Most of this stuff is scare tactics to a bigger agenda... fck 'em.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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while your talking to someone on your cell phone... Waive your cell phone in front of your Radio deck...

You'll hear how much EMI is coming out of your cellphone, and goin to your brain

When i first did that i was like... WTF, now i try using a headset.
 

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Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
I never really take any of these so-called studies seriously.... If I did, I wouldn't eat, smoke or touch anything ever again.

Sorry. But if you think smoking isn't as bad for you as they say it is then you are in for a big suprise. I can show you the lungs of smokers that i have dissected if you want to see what happens when u smoke a pack.
 

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wheres the part about women catching hpv and it turning into cervical cancer?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is the first time I've ever heard of HPV causing mouth cancer. Are these people smokers, do other drugs? This study has tto show me detailed stats before I pass judgement on this. I do know that HPV causes cervical cancer which is no concern for me of course.
 

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Originally posted by ghostin
Sorry. But if you think smoking isn't as bad for you as they say it is then you are in for a big suprise. I can show you the lungs of smokers that i have dissected if you want to see what happens when u smoke a pack.
oh jesus christ.... I mean't it as saying that anything and everything we do will cause cancer... Yes I'm aware that smoking is bad for me. I don't smoke, I was just illustrating a point.:rolleyes:

Someone always has to pick something you say apart around here, eh?
 

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anyways, it looks like this report is a part of recent effort to curb teenage sex - where the rise of oral has been HUGE in the past decade..

so yeah, sort of propaganda, but still somewhat true..
 

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Well I recently made the claim to a girl that giving me oral, and swallowing, can dramatically lower the risk of obtaining oral/throat cancers.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by WORKEROUTER
Well I recently made the claim to a girl that giving me oral, and swallowing, can dramatically lower the risk of obtaining oral/throat cancers.
how'd that work out for you?
 
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