"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
******* or jerk comments you use on women ?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
zekko
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I play the fiercely independent, mature male role who has his sh!t together, has a plan for his life, and is following it. I am not some adolescent BOY playing at being a bad boy, I am a man. So they can get on board with THAT, which is something which has real worth, or they can go find a jerk or @sshole, which would be their loss, lol to them, they fvcked up.
Which is not to say I'm a serious type, most girls tell me they like my sense of humor. You know what they say, if you can make them laugh, you can fvck them.