"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
******* or jerk comments you use on women ?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
zekko
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I play the fiercely independent, mature male role who has his sh!t together, has a plan for his life, and is following it. I am not some adolescent BOY playing at being a bad boy, I am a man. So they can get on board with THAT, which is something which has real worth, or they can go find a jerk or @sshole, which would be their loss, lol to them, they fvcked up.
Which is not to say I'm a serious type, most girls tell me they like my sense of humor. You know what they say, if you can make them laugh, you can fvck them.