"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Options, and the Friendzone.

Jair213

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You are not an option or will you never be anyone's option.

I believe you become an option when you fall in the AFC herd of men that are chasing a woman. Now that you fell into this bunch of chumps that are trying to be her white Knight in shining armor. she has the pick of the bunch, yes including you.

How to avoid this? Make your move quick. Ask her out on a date asap. Not to quick though and do not seem way too needy. Be smooth, flirt with her, etc. If she seems interested and flirting back, and you possibly get a kiss close on the first date then keep escalating on the next dates. If she starts to show low interest, flakes, then pull back withdraw and NEXT HER QUICK! This is watt makes you a DJ, this is to show her your not like the other CHUMPS!
And you never let her be your friend.(Unless your using her social circle to get at the other b!shes, etc) I wouldn't consider this though for the fact that there's enough b!shes out there.

If you meet the chick through friends or same social circle. Act like nothing never happened say Hi, and small talk her a bit. Withdraw all attention and move on to the next chick.

Now my friends, you are out of the bunch of her AFC' options that are chasing her helplessly. And that my friends is watt makes this process the friendzone unexistent
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Driggs

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You can also be distant but friendly when she comes around, make no attempt to get next to her, and whenever you do get next to her put the moves on her. If she pushes you away dismiss her and ignore her for a while.

I usually reject their attempts either by commencing distance or by telling them "No, We are going to be fvcking." If she throws a fit about that ignore her.
 

Alvafe

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from what I know if you are friendzoned but a girl you are ****ed, she will not help you get another woman, she want you there for her, so she will given the chance to sabotage you, so if you fall in the friendzone, your only way is disapear and never look for her and if she does say you are busy, save for this yeah you jsut need to move quick and close the deal
 

Driggs

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I don't agree with that, there are numerous ways to play it but being a sexual threat is key. Do things like pick them up over your shoulder and carry them around. Then put them down and start texting...
 

VladPatton

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You can pretend to be like the other AFCs out there for closeness, but by not being her orbiter you automatically deploy your chute before falling into the Friend Zone. Don't become her friend with a penis. Leave that to the other chumps to feel a false sense of closeness to her.

If she refuses a date, be cool and just leave her alone. No tactic, technique, or play will matter, or work, if she is not interested, which is most likely the case. Be cool. Nothing shall rattle your cage. Especially not some silly little bıtch's refusal.

Now, if she's in your social circle, you gotta be even more headstrong and say hello, and act like nothing ever happened between you two. If it changes her mind about you (unlikely) you can try again. Otherwise, it is what it is.

In short, MAKE yourself the option by talking to her like a smooth mothertrucker and ask her on a date. Let the chumps buy her drink after drink and go shopping for dildos with her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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