"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Opting out of "the game"

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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gb788 said:
The only way to "win" at this game is to be MASTER MANIPULATOR, or in other words MASTER *******. Yes, everybody manipulates. And that is exactly why I ask myself what is the F***ing point. In order to win at this game, I've got to screw a whole bunch of other people.
I know it´s pretty hard – especially for an American – to differentiate between business life and private life. But you have to because there is a big difference. Business follows the rules of Machiavelli which says you have to be the master manipulator. Some people enjoy making business after this rule, others – like myself – don´t. But this is only about business.

In private life you don´t have to act like this but like a cowboy who breaks in and trains a horse. At first you have to build up your self-confidence, you have to be satisfied with yourself and happy on your own. After that you can be a little “nice” to others. But this doesn´t mean kissing their a$$ or letting them being rude to you. You only have to involve them in your happy life. If they respond good give them a reward in form of your time. If they respond bad punish them and spend your time with others. That´s how it works. If they act like a$$holes simply ignore them.

gb788 said:
I don't want to change.
You don´t have to change, you only have to improve your “human-training” skills.
 
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