taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
seconded. hang in there, bro.Warrior74 said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Opting out of "the game"
- Thread starter gb788
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Commandante
Senior Don Juan
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I know it´s pretty hard – especially for an American – to differentiate between business life and private life. But you have to because there is a big difference. Business follows the rules of Machiavelli which says you have to be the master manipulator. Some people enjoy making business after this rule, others – like myself – don´t. But this is only about business.gb788 said:
In private life you don´t have to act like this but like a cowboy who breaks in and trains a horse. At first you have to build up your self-confidence, you have to be satisfied with yourself and happy on your own. After that you can be a little “nice” to others. But this doesn´t mean kissing their a$$ or letting them being rude to you. You only have to involve them in your happy life. If they respond good give them a reward in form of your time. If they respond bad punish them and spend your time with others. That´s how it works. If they act like a$$holes simply ignore them.
You don´t have to change, you only have to improve your “human-training” skills.gb788 said: