"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Opposites attract

Bling

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Besides the face that my girlfriend is Cuban, we have nothing in common.




She's a tomboy, I'm a guy. She's a rocker, I'm a rapper. She watches Cartoon Network, I watch MTV and ESPN. She plays video games that are action, I play sports video games. I'm rather smart, she takes remedial classes. I'm younger than her.


lol, but I still like her.

So what are your thoughts on opposites attracting? Does it happen with you? Do you find it interesting?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ghostin

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Originally posted by Hornet
opposites are good for a quick fvck.

but in reality, stable relationships are built on similarity.

agreed
 

undesputable

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she watches cartoon network..... shes a tomboy...i can see a correlation there.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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