"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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opposite traits!

check_mate_kid_uk

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ever noticed how sometimes a women can find two oppsoites both atractice, liek skinny guys AND buff guys.

I have an anaalogy that can help you come to grips with this.

Do you remember in school, in the exams, who always finished first, well the very smart people did because they knew the stuff they zoomed through it. The thick people could not answer it so they also finished just as quickly. These are two opposites smart and thick people but they both finish first!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok, so what's your point?

Comming from a very skinny background I can say that women (at least not swedish ones) are NOT!!! attracted to skinny guys. Only DESPERATE fat women are. If you look at the majority, most women will like guys who have a good build.
 

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i know a tall skinny guy, very skinny, lanky that all guys where like how could girls like him but they seemed to swarm over him.
 

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I'm 5'11 and 120lbs - NOW THAT'S SKINNY.

Girls used to flock to me like crazy, but now I don't get looks.

However I can still get as much honey as anyone else because I do approaches & have alot of attitude.

BUT -- Being more to the buff than to the skinny is better any day of the week.

I know this wasn't the actual point of you post, but how skinny are you?

---- About "opposites", you just have qualities that compensates your lack of something. The guy might be buff but might be a wuss, the guy might be skinny but might be manly, etc.
 
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