"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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opposite traits!

check_mate_kid_uk

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ever noticed how sometimes a women can find two oppsoites both atractice, liek skinny guys AND buff guys.

I have an anaalogy that can help you come to grips with this.

Do you remember in school, in the exams, who always finished first, well the very smart people did because they knew the stuff they zoomed through it. The thick people could not answer it so they also finished just as quickly. These are two opposites smart and thick people but they both finish first!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ok, so what's your point?

Comming from a very skinny background I can say that women (at least not swedish ones) are NOT!!! attracted to skinny guys. Only DESPERATE fat women are. If you look at the majority, most women will like guys who have a good build.
 

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i know a tall skinny guy, very skinny, lanky that all guys where like how could girls like him but they seemed to swarm over him.
 

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I'm 5'11 and 120lbs - NOW THAT'S SKINNY.

Girls used to flock to me like crazy, but now I don't get looks.

However I can still get as much honey as anyone else because I do approaches & have alot of attitude.

BUT -- Being more to the buff than to the skinny is better any day of the week.

I know this wasn't the actual point of you post, but how skinny are you?

---- About "opposites", you just have qualities that compensates your lack of something. The guy might be buff but might be a wuss, the guy might be skinny but might be manly, etc.
 
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