"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Opposite of AFC is CFA

Canadian Catnip

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Some of the acronyms that are written about here and other PUA circles are pretty good. I like using them.

Well I was thinking that the opposite of an AFC Average Frustrated Chump is a ****y Funny Jerk. Well that works out to CFJ but if you use @sshole instead of Jerk you get CFA ****y Funny @sshole.

So for all of you acting like an AFC, turn it around and become a CFA.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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aussiegoat55

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Canadian Catnip said:
Some of the acronyms that are written about here and other PUA circles are pretty good. I like using them.

Well I was thinking that the opposite of an AFC Average Frustrated Chump is a ****y Funny Jerk. Well that works out to CFJ but if you use @sshole instead of Jerk you get CFA ****y Funny @sshole.

So for all of you acting like an AFC, turn it around and become a CFA.
Or ****y funny attitude.
 

Bonez

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aussiegoat55 said:
Or ****y funny attitude.
I had sex 3 times tongith, but damn, CF atittude describes me better than @sshole.

Oh yeah, and if somebody needs advice... (don't do blow) save your money for something you want, its always better to buy in bulk rather than a small amount at a time. So save up for your vacation, save for your drinks... I work in a bar, and you could buy enough drinks for 20 people with the money you spend in one night... hehe I could buy enough for 60 with the tips I make though(;))... I'm druuuunk
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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