"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OPNION POLL: Best place/thing to do on a first date?

Harry Wilmington

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Hey guys:

From time to time I'll post a question on here to get a poll of what you all think about a particular topic I have going on in my head. For this post, my question is:

What have you found to be the best place, thing, or outing to do on a first date?

In terms of the question, I'm not referring to a date that may have necessarily been the most balls-out fun; I'm talking about one that proved to be most effective in your quest to attract a girl, and why.

I'll start: I have found the best, most effective first date to be... at combination book stores/coffee shops.

The reason? Girls who don't want to give off the slvt vibe will usually make a guy wait 2 to 3 dates before he lets them hit it. If you take her to a place like Barnes & Noble, which usually has a Starbucks in it, you can meet up at the coffee shop part to eat, snack and talk, then move onto the book store part to browse.

It psychologically makes her feel like she's going on TWO dates at once, making it more likely for you to score with her later that night or on the next date. (This has worked for the last 5 girls I've dated/banged.)

Okay, how about YOU - what have you found to be an effective first date place or outing to go on?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zarky

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Drinks somewhere then back to her place to screw.

These are the only first dates I go on nowadays. I screen heavily to make sure this happens.
 

The Bat

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Hookah bars.
 
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