"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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OPNION POLL: Best place/thing to do on a first date?

Harry Wilmington

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Hey guys:

From time to time I'll post a question on here to get a poll of what you all think about a particular topic I have going on in my head. For this post, my question is:

What have you found to be the best place, thing, or outing to do on a first date?

In terms of the question, I'm not referring to a date that may have necessarily been the most balls-out fun; I'm talking about one that proved to be most effective in your quest to attract a girl, and why.

I'll start: I have found the best, most effective first date to be... at combination book stores/coffee shops.

The reason? Girls who don't want to give off the slvt vibe will usually make a guy wait 2 to 3 dates before he lets them hit it. If you take her to a place like Barnes & Noble, which usually has a Starbucks in it, you can meet up at the coffee shop part to eat, snack and talk, then move onto the book store part to browse.

It psychologically makes her feel like she's going on TWO dates at once, making it more likely for you to score with her later that night or on the next date. (This has worked for the last 5 girls I've dated/banged.)

Okay, how about YOU - what have you found to be an effective first date place or outing to go on?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zarky

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Drinks somewhere then back to her place to screw.

These are the only first dates I go on nowadays. I screen heavily to make sure this happens.
 

The Bat

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Hookah bars.
 
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