Quick rundown of my current situation
Girl #1 - Been fooling around for about 2 months now. Texts/calls me multiple times per week wanting to come over. Great sex (incredible head), 22 years old, HB6... if that even counts as HB...
Girl #2 - Only had sex once, but she keeps trying to make it happen again. I'm not extremely interested anymore, but enough to keep her around. Decent sex, 24 years old, HB7.
Girl #3 - One of my best friend's cousin. I was too interested at first, but she made things very tempting. Plus, the fact that she is leaving the country this week for 3 years made it as no-strings-attached as it could possibly be. I couldn't turn that down, and now she asks to come over almost nightly. Good sex, 23 years old, HB6.5-7.
Saturday
I meet this girl (Girl #4, HB9, friend's g/f's cousin), and I could tell from the start she kinda had a thing for me. Caught her looking at me a lot, turning her head when I would look, trying to start pointless convos up with me, etc. I knew I was going out with them at night, so when I left in the afternoon, I just played it cool. I get a text from my friend saying that Girl #4 likes me, and whatever.
So the 4 of us go out; me, Girl #4, my friend, and his g/f. She's extremely upfront and tells things exactly how she sees them, or what shes thinking. Tells me right off the bat that shes 29 years old (looks 24) and that she's been married and divorced.
So, I end up bringing her home that night. She wouldn't have sex on the first night, but we were fooling around until 8:30am, and then woke up at 10 and went back at it until 2pm. :woo:
Finally, the whole point to this story
While we are laying in my bed, she tells me that she only sleeps with 1 guy at a time. And because of that, if we started having sex on a regular basis and she found another guy, she would "call me and tell me we were done because she will only get with 1 guy at a time". She also said, she usually ends things either way after about 2 months, because that's when she starts getting attached, and she knows her limits and when she needs to stop it. She also asked that I do the same, and that if we started up, I did not sleep with anyone else, and if I wanted to, I would give her the courtesy to call and put a stop to it with her first.
It all just caught me off guard, and I don't know what to think about it. First of all, how do I take these "rules" she put out there? Also, what's your opinion on dropping the other plates? Girl #3 I don't need to worry about since she is moving. Girl #4 is EASILY the best of the bunch, so generally speaking, it would be worth dropping them to get with her. Or do I keep the plates around and hope for the best that she doesn't find out? The issue there is the fact shes my friend's g/f's cousin.
Greatly appreciate any words of wisdom. Thanks!
Girl #1 - Been fooling around for about 2 months now. Texts/calls me multiple times per week wanting to come over. Great sex (incredible head), 22 years old, HB6... if that even counts as HB...
Girl #2 - Only had sex once, but she keeps trying to make it happen again. I'm not extremely interested anymore, but enough to keep her around. Decent sex, 24 years old, HB7.
Girl #3 - One of my best friend's cousin. I was too interested at first, but she made things very tempting. Plus, the fact that she is leaving the country this week for 3 years made it as no-strings-attached as it could possibly be. I couldn't turn that down, and now she asks to come over almost nightly. Good sex, 23 years old, HB6.5-7.
Saturday
I meet this girl (Girl #4, HB9, friend's g/f's cousin), and I could tell from the start she kinda had a thing for me. Caught her looking at me a lot, turning her head when I would look, trying to start pointless convos up with me, etc. I knew I was going out with them at night, so when I left in the afternoon, I just played it cool. I get a text from my friend saying that Girl #4 likes me, and whatever.
So the 4 of us go out; me, Girl #4, my friend, and his g/f. She's extremely upfront and tells things exactly how she sees them, or what shes thinking. Tells me right off the bat that shes 29 years old (looks 24) and that she's been married and divorced.
So, I end up bringing her home that night. She wouldn't have sex on the first night, but we were fooling around until 8:30am, and then woke up at 10 and went back at it until 2pm. :woo:
Finally, the whole point to this story
While we are laying in my bed, she tells me that she only sleeps with 1 guy at a time. And because of that, if we started having sex on a regular basis and she found another guy, she would "call me and tell me we were done because she will only get with 1 guy at a time". She also said, she usually ends things either way after about 2 months, because that's when she starts getting attached, and she knows her limits and when she needs to stop it. She also asked that I do the same, and that if we started up, I did not sleep with anyone else, and if I wanted to, I would give her the courtesy to call and put a stop to it with her first.
It all just caught me off guard, and I don't know what to think about it. First of all, how do I take these "rules" she put out there? Also, what's your opinion on dropping the other plates? Girl #3 I don't need to worry about since she is moving. Girl #4 is EASILY the best of the bunch, so generally speaking, it would be worth dropping them to get with her. Or do I keep the plates around and hope for the best that she doesn't find out? The issue there is the fact shes my friend's g/f's cousin.
Greatly appreciate any words of wisdom. Thanks!