"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Right I need a real quick answer from someone with this.

So last week in a school detention I started talking to a girl when the teacher pissed off..so we were on our own people kept coming in and out though so I didnt make any moves or anything. I was just being a funny, nice guy seeing as I was immensely hyper.
So its been bout a week and ive barely seen her except to say hi and such....she seemed into me last week so i thought i better create a bit of distance by not beeing so eager.
Today,,,,,it was really warm so everyone was on the school field and I was laying on the grass under a tree,and the girl came close by wth her friends and started messing with this ball so the ball landed about 7 metres from me...maybe 3 metres from her and she she shouts me to throw it to her. I was laying down and it took me a while to spot it.....I assumed it was next me or something,someone else went for it and she shouted at them not to and such
My mate that I was with said straight away "Damn TIm she fancies you"
But Im not sure she did seem into me that night after school suggestive questons e.g. u got a gf and have u got a prom date? but im not really a good judge of when someone is into me


So yh i dont have her number or anything yet but opinions would be appreciated

EDIT: If that still doesnt make sense just tell me
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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we speak english here.
my eyes hurt.
 

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Just escalate your advances more. Did you get the ball for her by the way? Because that would have been a great time for a c and f comment.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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