SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
http://mobile.slate.com/blogs/xx_fa...actually_want_it_and_less_needy_men_too_.html
I'm pretty speechless.
I'm pretty speechless.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
5string
Master Don Juan
Feministic dribble.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
ThanksAlvafe said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Honestly, the article is talking a lot about BETA ass dudes..... There's a girl I'm talking to right now who I bang on a regular, have feelings for but I never am over excessive with neediness and I still spin other plates, hang out with friends and do my hobbies.......
I guess what I'm saying is.....who gives a ****? If that's how they want to think, that's just more openly encouraging them to ****.......I'm totally down with that. Send them my way......lmao
I guess what I'm saying is.....who gives a ****? If that's how they want to think, that's just more openly encouraging them to ****.......I'm totally down with that. Send them my way......lmao