SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
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I'm pretty speechless.
I'm pretty speechless.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Feministic dribble.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
ThanksAlvafe said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Honestly, the article is talking a lot about BETA ass dudes..... There's a girl I'm talking to right now who I bang on a regular, have feelings for but I never am over excessive with neediness and I still spin other plates, hang out with friends and do my hobbies.......
I guess what I'm saying is.....who gives a ****? If that's how they want to think, that's just more openly encouraging them to ****.......I'm totally down with that. Send them my way......lmao
I guess what I'm saying is.....who gives a ****? If that's how they want to think, that's just more openly encouraging them to ****.......I'm totally down with that. Send them my way......lmao