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Opinions on baggy pants?

Turnthemusicup

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Im wondering what everyone's take on baggy pants is and how low is to low. Personally i say that the top of the belt should be no lower than top of the A crack or it goes from stylish to gangster wannabe. Appreciate everyone's opinion!
 

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lol.

If you're going for that thug/gangster look, sure. It can work for you, if you do it right. But if you're were like some fat nerdy lookin guy, I'd say no. Your gut would hang out all over the place, as well as you looking like a poser.

Really, wear what you like. That's all that matters. Its about what YOU like, not what we like.
 

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Be yourself, whatever fits you best. Don't do somethin just because that's what you think the females want to see.

Some like their boys saggin like a muhf*cka, some like them sophisticated with their shirt tucked in.
 
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The "baggy pants" trend came from blacks in America who have been shackled in handcuffs in prison and thus their pants fell down without the prisoner (i.e. slave) having the ability to lift them up in his shackled state ------ Are you a slave?????????????
 

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baggy pants are out of fashion, it's tight jeans this season folks.
 

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WEAR WHAT YOU WANT! If you arent comfortable in your clothes then you will worry what others think of you in public instead of introducing yourself and meeting new people like you should be doing.
I personally do not like pants that are anything more the slighty baggy, I think its unprofessional(I'm a Realtor,always have to be ready)/ugly/funny looking and asking for people to point and laugh at your boxers.
Since I have become a Realtor I have always had to dress SHARP around the clock. I wear dress slacks,Tommy Bahama shoes, and an one tone colored dress shirt(top button undone)...THE LADIES LOVE IT! I am 18 and I catch people across the board watching me,young and old ladies,yes guys included. They are wondering why such a young person is dressed like Iam. Its a great conversation starter.
 
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im gonna give you an advice,
wear what most people where you live wear

when i was in canada i used to wear baggy pants and i was seen cool and there was another mexican who used to wear tight jeans and he was seen as a fag

here in mexico is the opposite, if you wear baggy pants you are seen as a thug , so i had to change for tight jeans (not that tight)
 

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All kinds of looks can work for you..really depends on who you are and how you carry yourself...you got guys who wear the tight pants and pink polo shirt metrosexual look and do fine with it...then you got guys who pull of the extreme gangsta look and it works for them...

I prefer (not too) baggy/loose jeans, basically jeasn which are baggy but not saggy if you know what I mean..which go pretty fine with some of the (more body fit or polo) shirts I wear to show off my muscles a little ;-) (though I really dont wear any shirts that are way too tight like some folks do). But honestly, I think you can pull off a nice look if you do wear baggy/lose pants and compliment them with nice shirts and stuff so you dont really come across like a thug (which on a lot of people just looks plain funny). I'm not saying I'm a great fan of those guys, but look at Usher..or that Mario Winans guy or whatever his name was..or maybe even kanye west (without the pink polo shirts)...those guys do wear baggy pants for the most part (but not too baggy/saggy) but still are dressed pretty 'fine'...that's basically the look I prefer and I think it's a nice look for all people who prefer baggy pants too tight pants and don't wanna hop on that metrosexual bandwagon ;-)...not saying I have something against people who wear pink polo shirts and overly tight t-shirts 2 sizes too small or whatever, but I just wouldn't like it for myself...
 

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Bigg Boss said:
Be yourself, whatever fits you best. Don't do somethin just because that's what you think the females want to see.
lol that only works to a certain degree because honestly im am by far the most comfortable in tank top and gym pants :p
 

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I go with the tight jeans or atleast the kind that fit right. Then I rock the tight shirts and girls eat that **** up.

Baggy pants are retarded anyways. Especially those new pants "gangsters/gunits" wear that look like girls capris. I laugh everytime I see them.
 

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Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Turnthemusicup said:
Im wondering what everyone's take on baggy pants is and how low is to low. Personally i say that the top of the belt should be no lower than top of the A crack or it goes from stylish to gangster wannabe. Appreciate everyone's opinion!
i personly just wear girl pants but thats just me
 

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Paintballguy said:
I go with the tight jeans or atleast the kind that fit right. Then I rock the tight shirts and girls eat that **** up.

Baggy pants are retarded anyways. Especially those new pants "gangsters/gunits" wear that look like girls capris. I laugh everytime I see them.
how tight? cus im sorry but anyone who wears TIGHT jeans or girls jeans has no right to bag on baggy pants. i wear em a baggy but i dont exaggerate it like some kinda thug or wanna be thug....

u got one thing right tho......gunit clothes are nasty
 
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