"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Opinion Question. What do you think of this way of asking a girl to lunch?

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Just Another Guy....

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There's this girl I see every Wednesday in one of my giant lecture classes. There's about 250ish people in my class. We sit in the back, and we met this semester, but we didn't talk until yesterday.

Anyway, during class I passed her a tic tac toe board drawn on a sheet of paper and we played all class. I thought about an hour after class ended....

Play hangman, and say "Lunch after class?" or something? Just looking for opinions here.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PerfectCircle

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The words dont really matter so much, whether what you say is suave or simple all that matters is that you make it seem effortless (ie dont show doubt, eagerness, nervousness, ect.)
 
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