"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Opinion on how to treat a Date's friend.

ace88

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I went on a date 7 days ago, went south, no big deal not my fault. The girl (Yankee) i went on a date has two friends, Rusky and Wursty. I've known both for a while and both were nice and friendly before i started seeing the girl, and while I was seeing her.

Thread of Date...http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221162

Since the date 7 days ago Rusky stopped acknowledging my existence, this would not bother me if she would have maintained the decency to say hello or goodbye when we are hanging out in a group. I was raised in a family where manners are regarded as the most important thing. A person with no manners is considered an animal in my family.

I am considering giving her ****.
A: Because it's just f'in wrong, we are not children.
B: I was very polite to her friend, there is no reason for Rusky to behave in this way because of my date with her friend, Yankee.

In all of this the other friend Wursty is acting normal.


WTF?!?!?!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TheException

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ace88 said:
I am considering giving her ****.
No.
A: Because it's just f'in wrong, we are not children.
B: I was very polite to her friend, there is no reason for Rusky to behave in this way because of my date with her friend, Yankee.
A: Get over it. You're right, you guys aren't 12 so quit making it a big deal. Your feelings are hurt? Go find your nutsack asap.
B: Girls are not logical creatures pal. You could have been the nicest guy in the world....it matters not. Who cares? Start acting unaffected.
 

ace88

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yeah dude you are right. I cant think everyone has my same values, or was brought up same as me.

Case closed.

Cheers
 
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