"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Opinion on how to treat a Date's friend.

ace88

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I went on a date 7 days ago, went south, no big deal not my fault. The girl (Yankee) i went on a date has two friends, Rusky and Wursty. I've known both for a while and both were nice and friendly before i started seeing the girl, and while I was seeing her.

Thread of Date...http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221162

Since the date 7 days ago Rusky stopped acknowledging my existence, this would not bother me if she would have maintained the decency to say hello or goodbye when we are hanging out in a group. I was raised in a family where manners are regarded as the most important thing. A person with no manners is considered an animal in my family.

I am considering giving her ****.
A: Because it's just f'in wrong, we are not children.
B: I was very polite to her friend, there is no reason for Rusky to behave in this way because of my date with her friend, Yankee.

In all of this the other friend Wursty is acting normal.


WTF?!?!?!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ace88 said:
I am considering giving her ****.
No.
A: Because it's just f'in wrong, we are not children.
B: I was very polite to her friend, there is no reason for Rusky to behave in this way because of my date with her friend, Yankee.
A: Get over it. You're right, you guys aren't 12 so quit making it a big deal. Your feelings are hurt? Go find your nutsack asap.
B: Girls are not logical creatures pal. You could have been the nicest guy in the world....it matters not. Who cares? Start acting unaffected.
 

ace88

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yeah dude you are right. I cant think everyone has my same values, or was brought up same as me.

Case closed.

Cheers
 
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