I just watched the Blueprint and to tell you the truth I was not overly impressed. Everyone is saying that this is the best product but I just didn't see that. I mean probably its because I watched Flawless Natural first and then this but I also realize that the blueprint just makes some of the stuff confusing by using big words. Don't get me wrong some of these stuff was great like the first dvd with social conditioning and being unreactive to stuff but that really it. I wasn't able to watch 4 pillars of reality because when i downloaded the torrent, some of the parts just cut off. If you guys could tell me about what he says about how people should act, that would be great. Anyways, I just wanted to know your opinions about this becasue to tell you the truth I believe Tim's Flawless Natural stuff is so easy to comprehend and he talks about the main points for having inner game and not need to say it in 19 dvds, which I think was ridiculous. A lot of Tyler's stuff could be explained in just 3 dvds and I got bored at listening to some of the stuff as well. Overall I thought this was a good product even though 4 days of this stuff wasn't necessary. I right now printed out notes from this because I feel like some of the stuff i will forget lol.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
opinion on Blueprint Decoded
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
i think there both the same but blueprint massively goes into each point of inner game deeply while flawless natural gives you points to remember everytime you step into the world. In blueprint i feel like i will forget 50 percent of the stuff in about a week because its just so much lol.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
Flawless Natural = The self-expression of TIM
Blueprint = The map to DECODE "YOURSELF"
The fact that your just running through that dvd is SAD as your missing GOLD...I've watched blueprint once when it first came out and 3 months ago...both times were CRAZY. Since blueprint came out I've been implementing there stuff and decoded myself. Now I have a style that works for me and I'm a guy who chicks just want to ****.
I think Blueprint is a bit advanced though because you really need that EXPERIENCE to understand certain things...I really think the basic principles with FOUNDATIONS would help you insanely.
It's insane how so many people watched blueprint but STILL haven't got to where they want to be...I also think it worked for me because I actually ENJOY SOCIAL DYNAMICS more than actually getting laid, so it feels like a fun hobby and self-development...
Blueprint = The map to DECODE "YOURSELF"
The fact that your just running through that dvd is SAD as your missing GOLD...I've watched blueprint once when it first came out and 3 months ago...both times were CRAZY. Since blueprint came out I've been implementing there stuff and decoded myself. Now I have a style that works for me and I'm a guy who chicks just want to ****.
I think Blueprint is a bit advanced though because you really need that EXPERIENCE to understand certain things...I really think the basic principles with FOUNDATIONS would help you insanely.
It's insane how so many people watched blueprint but STILL haven't got to where they want to be...I also think it worked for me because I actually ENJOY SOCIAL DYNAMICS more than actually getting laid, so it feels like a fun hobby and self-development...
ready123
Master Don Juan
I never seen Flawless Natural but I've listened to the Blueprint many many times
What's valuable about it to me is once you get past the social conditioning part, he starts to conceptualize a TON of sht I FELT while interacting but could never really explain. The product is geared toward understanding how your mind/emotions works and how it affects your socialization, as opposed to giving you a new or streamlined model to pick up girls. And I really don't think you can condense it - but you do gotta reflect on it to understand and get something out of it
For example, he spends about 10 mins talking about what he calls "competencies". He explains how when you have new clothes or a haircut, your mind automatically goes into state and you're more willing to socialize.
Think of how that applies to guys on this board - coming across a new piece of pick-up advice. It could be totally wrong or irrelevant but because they believe in it and it's fresh in their heads, they're now willing to talk to girls. That's because this "competency" gave them permission to be in state - to feel good about themselves
Then look at how being in state subcommunicates value so even if that pick-up advice was meaningless, they were able to close off it because the girl responded positively to the subcommunication
Then look at what happens next - a lot of guys then attribute their success to that competency instead of to themselves. So they keep buying new sht to get back in state, relying on external factors instead of working on their core confidence
What's valuable about it to me is once you get past the social conditioning part, he starts to conceptualize a TON of sht I FELT while interacting but could never really explain. The product is geared toward understanding how your mind/emotions works and how it affects your socialization, as opposed to giving you a new or streamlined model to pick up girls. And I really don't think you can condense it - but you do gotta reflect on it to understand and get something out of it
For example, he spends about 10 mins talking about what he calls "competencies". He explains how when you have new clothes or a haircut, your mind automatically goes into state and you're more willing to socialize.
Think of how that applies to guys on this board - coming across a new piece of pick-up advice. It could be totally wrong or irrelevant but because they believe in it and it's fresh in their heads, they're now willing to talk to girls. That's because this "competency" gave them permission to be in state - to feel good about themselves
Then look at how being in state subcommunicates value so even if that pick-up advice was meaningless, they were able to close off it because the girl responded positively to the subcommunication
Then look at what happens next - a lot of guys then attribute their success to that competency instead of to themselves. So they keep buying new sht to get back in state, relying on external factors instead of working on their core confidence
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thanks for the reply ready123... I just watched the first video and wasn't impressed at all, Tyler reapeats the same stuff, and the examples he gives are pretty irrelevant. I'm assuming he does this to set everyone up to what he's going to go into, sO I will give it a chance....However, I am wondering if it's necessary to watch his other videos, transformations.....and or foundations, or if I can get the most out of blueprint without it. Thanks...
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
I suggest that you get his videos on how to get woman. Blue print is more helpful once you get to the point where you can get alot of woman. All Tyler do is points out on being natural and completly comfortable with yourself and stuff
ready123
Master Don Juan
you don't need to watch the others but they all serve different purposes.Drewskie said:Thanks for the reply ready123... I just watched the first video and wasn't impressed at all, Tyler reapeats the same stuff, and the examples he gives are pretty irrelevant. I'm assuming he does this to set everyone up to what he's going to go into, sO I will give it a chance....However, I am wondering if it's necessary to watch his other videos, transformations.....and or foundations, or if I can get the most out of blueprint without it. Thanks...
foundations is basically a streamlined model on how to close a girl from opener to sex. He caters it to natural game, as opposed to canned sht. if you're wondering HOW to do pickup, this is one of many models you can follow. it's step by step and there is a really good section on how to pass sht tests where tyler lists about 15 different ways to get through them
transformations is a bunch of random topics from 5 different instructors - basically whatever they wanted to talk about. I liked Ozzie's piece on dancefloor game because I'm always in the clubs and there were a lot of other bits and pieces I liked too. it's mostly a fragmented supplement though
blueprint focuses mostly on WHY things work the way they do. it's not so much an instruction manual on game as it is a conceptualizing of previously esoteric topics. there is a ton of depth in here but you need to have gone through the ups and downs of trying to go natural to get the most out of it. guys who are focused on having the wittiest memorized comeback to some specific sht test and can't see the big picture are not gonna appreciate the depth here
ready123
Master Don Juan
from what I know, the whole sex worthy guy label is something Tim came up with, not Tyler. I havent listened to a lot of Tim's stuff so I dont know much about the label but it seems like just a colorful way to say, you're now a natural at this stuff and your identity is in alignment with this
and the first time i ever heard tyler on audio, I thought, whoa this guy has a high ass voice and talks too damn fast. the guy's a genius at social psychology though and you get used to it
once you get past the social conditioning part there are a ton of esoteric concepts he introduces
- masculine/female polarities
- right action (procrastinators and guys with approach anxiety should learn this)
- resistance as an emotion (cant stress how crucial this concept is to self actualization)
- external ways we draw state (what I described two posts above, obviously what we wanna avoid)
- assumed responses (can't remember what he calls it but if you've ever been feeling so good that you approached a girl and expected her to react positively and she did, thats the basic example)
- plus a ton of other sht i cant remember
and the first time i ever heard tyler on audio, I thought, whoa this guy has a high ass voice and talks too damn fast. the guy's a genius at social psychology though and you get used to it
once you get past the social conditioning part there are a ton of esoteric concepts he introduces
- masculine/female polarities
- right action (procrastinators and guys with approach anxiety should learn this)
- resistance as an emotion (cant stress how crucial this concept is to self actualization)
- external ways we draw state (what I described two posts above, obviously what we wanna avoid)
- assumed responses (can't remember what he calls it but if you've ever been feeling so good that you approached a girl and expected her to react positively and she did, thats the basic example)
- plus a ton of other sht i cant remember
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ready123
Master Don Juan
if you ever had a night where everything was just "on" - you felt really good about yourself, positive reaction was pretty much a given, you were extroverted and not inside your head, and if by chance some girl reacted negative it did not affect you, that's what RSD calls being "in state". I like tyler's definition - you feel like you're the source of good emotions to others
think of what that subcommunicates and how attractive that is to girls. it's literally your personality at its peak without all the low value behavior. confidence, kino, all that sht happens without thinking when you're "in state". this is also why a lot of guys get drunk - it's the only way they know to get in this mode
a good chunk of the blueprint is spent explaining state and how to make it happen naturally. he also brings up an important concept called stifling (when you feel caged in by your environment) that correlates to state
think of what that subcommunicates and how attractive that is to girls. it's literally your personality at its peak without all the low value behavior. confidence, kino, all that sht happens without thinking when you're "in state". this is also why a lot of guys get drunk - it's the only way they know to get in this mode
a good chunk of the blueprint is spent explaining state and how to make it happen naturally. he also brings up an important concept called stifling (when you feel caged in by your environment) that correlates to state