"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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opinion on a tshirt

The Immortal

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would wearing a tshirt with a half naked woman (cant actually see nipples theyre obscured) be attractive to women or would it seem immature? im torn.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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WaterTiger

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Immature,
sexist,
perhaps even intimidating....


Wear this "nudie" shirt only to poker games with guys, girls are not going to find it appealing.
 

thedarkpassenger

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You can pull it off if you're wearing a nice black blazer or suit jacket over it. This makes it more nonchalant. Just wearing that tshirt with some jeans may make you look immature.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ridingthelightning

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Hell no, not immature. Wear that shirt. In fact I may find a shirt with a naked female just so I can wear it.
Go big, bold, and boisterous or go home.
 

Cinamon

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I think the t shirt is fine, but you will no doubt offend someone or other with it. I once saw this guy with a tattoo on his upper arm of a woman with an hour glass figure. It was from the shoulder to the thighs and she was wearing a bra and suspenders with a dildo in her vagina, it's the only thing I have come across that I thought was inappropriate for public display.
 

JCballin88

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It may not be totally immature, but certainly doesn't come across as classy.

I would say there's plenty of unique and conversation-starting T-shirts out there that don't degrade women to a trashy level.
 

Pie in the Sky

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It is immature, inappropriate, and looks trashy. Wearing something like this makes you look socially retarded. Nothing personal.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dante420

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WaterTiger said:
Immature,
sexist,
perhaps even intimidating....


Wear this "nudie" shirt only to poker games with guys, girls are not going to find it appealing.
This is the answer your lookin for
 
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