"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Operation: HS Cleanup

TheVirtualMind

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Ok, the official "High School Forum Cleanup" is going to start. This is going to require help right now. So I need you guys (and any lurking girls) to do the following for me:

- Send me a PM of links you find useful for newbies that are of HS value

- Send me a PM of links of threads you don't want to see around here anymore (not all of them, just a few so I can get an idea of what should stay and what should go)

- Any rules you feel are needed

- Anything else you think is relevant

I do NOT want: spam, threat PM's about me deleting something of yours (I'll delete it anyway if you PM me telling me not to), solicitation, bribes (unless the price is right), and anything that would make me want to hit my head on a wall until the wall has a bloodstain on it.

Thank you for your help.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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flippinfreak

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DO NOT just go to old posts and start deleting at random... the archives are around to keep informative and interesting posts...

Reason saying, I have a few gold quality posts that I HAD bookmarked that are now deleted, the only place they are available is the wayback machine...

Some of the older HS Forum posts are better than in the DJ Tips section.
 

Fender

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I think it's freakin' ridiculous that we have a HS forum at all!

Half these people can't even get a grip on reality. Why on EARTH are they trying to learn about seduction?!?!

They have more pressing matters to solve and cure. I think these problems are very real and deserve attention- but not on a a website dedicated to meeting women.

Maybe we can split the HS forum into two sections-

Seduction

and
Life


But anyways, g'luck VirtualMind on your cleanup :D
 

dannowillbookem

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nah keep hs forum. and thumbs up to virtual mind on this.

well, someone should write a sticky just declared "The Rules". we already have a rule sticky i think but its focused too much on how to write a thread and its more of an essay instead of a list.

1. No Flaming - Flaming doesn't help anybody on the forums. We're not the polite police, but if replies are posted that contribute little or nothing to the basic subject at hand, they will be deleted. Any regular offenders will be considered for suspension/deletion.

2. No Whining - No one cares about how pathetic your life is. Don't write ten minutes worth of everyone hates me and I'm lonely, only to sum it up "so how do I fix my life?" Read the DJ Bible, it's just down the page.

3. No Answered Questions - For the most part, people here are nice and ready to help. This doesn't mean, however, we want to answer "what's a good pickup line?" for the millionith time. We have a search feature at the top of the page. Use it.

think thats an okay start.

revamping the dj hs bible (and actually calling it "The Highschool DJ Bible" to clear up confusion) is an awesome idea. i'll look around for some good links...i think i have a few bookmarked.
 

TheVirtualMind

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I'm gonna make a "Rules" list once I get some more PM's. I appricate the ones I got already since they are useful.

Flippinfreak - Allen deletes threads after a certain date. I have no control over that. If there is something that you feel is useful though that is old, I can put it in Tips since that is never deleted.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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flippinfreak

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Sweet!

I didn't know that...

time to start bumping, some of the posts aren't specifically meant as tips. Kind of like threads in the Mature Man forum... they are only very welcome.
 

Bling

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Sorry, but there has to be more mods. or more of a crackdown. I've never seen you, Vincent, or AntiSuperStar post. The only mod that's here every day (that I can see) is diablo.
 

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The 'invisible' feature is your friend. : )

AS
 

TheVirtualMind

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The Antichrist_Star said:
The 'invisible' feature is your friend. : )

AS
Holy crap, you are still alive!

Dreamx - Um, no.
 

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I think that this forum should be strictly about improving. I dont think there should be any BS threads by people like DreamX and Viper (and sometimes me) who write the same shyt over and over again. If they make common threads like "how do i approach" or whatever I think they should be deleted. Time for some tough love.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Antichrist_Star

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TheVirtualMind said:
Holy crap, you are still alive!

Dreamx - Um, no.
;)

Yeah... I am.

AS
 

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How about we make a DJ bible based quiz, and make people pass it before they can post or some **** or someway to weed out the retarted.
 

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Virtual, you know how my thread is stickied in Tips? Use that to "advertise" the better threads of the HS forum (and discusson..and every other forum).

It's already in Tips, and is fitting as such, rather then what it sounds to be another repeat of the same thing. And since you're a mod, you can edit any post at any time =), I want that power *cry*!

But yeah, it's just more effective to build up one thread, then multiple ones? Agreed? (And since you mod, you can boot off the crap other people might post (if there are any, I'm too lazy and busy to look at all the threads posted-_-)
 

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The Antichrist_Star said:
The 'invisible' feature is your friend. : )

AS
You've given away our secret!
 

TheVirtualMind

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Don't worry Vincent, we won't give away anymore secrets like the meetings in Vegas we have.

Julez, hit me up on AIM whenever you get the chance. PM me for my name.

Everyone else - Expect everything to be running by next Monday.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Antichrist_Star

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TheVirtualMind said:
Don't worry Vincent, we won't give away anymore secrets like the meetings in Vegas we have.

Julez, hit me up on AIM whenever you get the chance. PM me for my name.

Everyone else - Expect everything to be running by next Monday.
Hey... hey...

What happens in Vegas... stays in Vegas. : )

Joe... we'll catch up soon.

AS
 

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AS it has been a very long time.

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