"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Operation: Approach in the Work?

Dr. Jim

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Riddle me this DJers, there is this chick hb 7 who I want to be a part of my life (I'm also spinning a few other plates too... back up plans don't hurt). I'm pretty sure she wants that to - giving good signs, laughing at jokes I make, strong eye contact, approaches me sometimes, makes reference to my hobbies...

I have approached her many instances and we sortof neg-hit each other. Along time ago, like in may she told me where she worked, and me having a good memory, I still remember... She told me in may basically to come over there after I suggested it. (She also asked about me taking her on an adventure :cool: )

I'm a pretty confident guy I mean I've been on the stage, I've done some crazy ****, and am probably social proof 100. Last week I was planning on ressurecting where she worked as a topic - so that it would seem more like there wasn't a huge gap in her telling me and me going - see I wanna approach her at her workplace but make it seem coincidental as part of a reoccuring joke we have about showing up in similar areas. The plan would be to tell her to go on some date, the key here is not asking - I think she knows I can dominate when I have to and this instance would be a case of doing so.

Does it come of as uber dominant, going to her work (even tho it's 8 months after the fact?) or stalkerish (being 8 months after the fact she told me) there is also the third possibility of playing the coincidence card (I was going to b/c I got a buddy nearby) Oh and I don't possess a car/ability to drive one (hopefully being resolved this month).
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dr. Jim

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The only advice I can give you buddy is, hesitation = masturbation. Approaching her at work might come off as strong, but hey you're man right...
 

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iono man a work place jus to let her noe u remember stuff. well iono wut i can say if it's a food place then get sum of ur friends n jus chillaze there r jus like b a dork n find out wut time she gets off so then u'll go by her work place wif ur friends COINCIDENTALLY n jus meet up wif her from there. that's all i got
 

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GROCERIES :D + my buddy lives across the street from the grocery store, never met her tho, they all go to different schools. It's been awhile so she's probably forgot about telling me this **** where she works, so it should come off as "coincidence" ;) then ask her for date that night.
 
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