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Openning the door for her
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ezekiel009
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Just do it.
thefonz
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I open the door for girls in general.....I don't expect anything in return, not even a thank you.....it's something thats just built into me......alot of the time i don't even look them in the eye when i do it cus i don't wanna give them the impression that i'm an AFC, it's just something i do for myself
Kaine
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Hey it's cool
There are somethings you can't go wrong with, this includes opening doors for women.
Other classy behaviours include walking on the road side. Just don't make a big deal out of it. As long you're not doing the calling everyday thing, flowers, teddy bears and proclaiming your undying love it's all good.
If you don't do this all the time, then do it on special occassions.
If you've just recently talked about, and you want to, then wait a period of time and then do it. It's better for trivial things that you NEVER always give her what she wants it when she wants it all the time.
There are somethings you can't go wrong with, this includes opening doors for women.
Other classy behaviours include walking on the road side. Just don't make a big deal out of it. As long you're not doing the calling everyday thing, flowers, teddy bears and proclaiming your undying love it's all good.
If you don't do this all the time, then do it on special occassions.
If you've just recently talked about, and you want to, then wait a period of time and then do it. It's better for trivial things that you NEVER always give her what she wants it when she wants it all the time.
Opening the door is a good thing, it shows that you have some manners and the feminists hate that. Also pulling out her chair in a resturant shows you have some class.
On the other hand some guys take it a step farther when they place their nice jacket on a puddle of water so the chick will not get her shoes wet ( This is an AFC behaviour).
On the other hand some guys take it a step farther when they place their nice jacket on a puddle of water so the chick will not get her shoes wet ( This is an AFC behaviour).
captn caveman
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I open doors.
And in a crowded space, I move men, and me, if a girl is passing by.
I do it in a way that neither the door or the men have a say in this aspect.
Maybe a nod, like, you move first, no smile...
She knows I have the choice to do it or not,
I choose to do it,
As it is easier for me to open the door, ar make my way through,
And am willing to share my power with her, for the few seconds of interaction, as I have the luxury of being able to share.
This may not make sense, but with this mindset,
The woman knows you are not doing it to please her, you just do it because you feel like it, and she happens to be there.
And in a crowded space, I move men, and me, if a girl is passing by.
I do it in a way that neither the door or the men have a say in this aspect.
Maybe a nod, like, you move first, no smile...
She knows I have the choice to do it or not,
I choose to do it,
As it is easier for me to open the door, ar make my way through,
And am willing to share my power with her, for the few seconds of interaction, as I have the luxury of being able to share.
This may not make sense, but with this mindset,
The woman knows you are not doing it to please her, you just do it because you feel like it, and she happens to be there.
rappermas
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Down with the feminists! There is a clear distinction as to what is AFC and what is not.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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RogueWarrior
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This one comes under the larger heading of "Manners". I've been told by several women that guys with manners are very sexy e.g. a "southern gentleman".
Try this one: When approaching your car, go out of your way to unlock and open her door first. And while you're at it, clean your friggin' car too. It's no big deal. A couple of bucks at a self-service place and vacuum the inside.
Or this one: If you came in separate cars, walk her back to hers before you leave.
Try this one: When approaching your car, go out of your way to unlock and open her door first. And while you're at it, clean your friggin' car too. It's no big deal. A couple of bucks at a self-service place and vacuum the inside.
Or this one: If you came in separate cars, walk her back to hers before you leave.
skinnydart
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At my college, it's concidered really rude to not hold the door for a female, even if she is like 5 seconds behind you.
huge_guy_pimpin
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in the real world its considered not to give a **** about holding doors for people and really rude to get to class late, idiot.
huge_guy_pimpin
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ya ok, u go holding doors for fully abled people, have fun, i only open a door when a person needs it.Originally posted by Vincent
I don't think 5 seconds would make you late...
But of course who needs chivalry anymore, we can all just be complete *******s to everyone. Oh wait, I'm too late
skinnydart
Master Don Juan
But in the "real world" there are no classes... idiot.
P.S. I'm a junior in college, have higher grades than you do, and have already worked for several multi-national corporations, I don't think you have anything on me when it comes to living in the "real world".
huge_guy_pimpin
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btw im bill gates and who gives a **** who u or i am ?
real world as opposed to fantasy, foolish.
huge_guy_pimpin
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why in texas u get shot if u dont hold a door for the ladies?
AFK Protector
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If I'm walking and they happen to be close behind me (checking out my ass of course), I just keep my arm out back a little longer to hold it until they get in.
If they're in front, I just let them get the door. I'm not a ****ing bellhop.
If they're behind quite a distance, maybe 4-5 strides, I just open the door and keep going.
WTF IS SO HARD PEOPLE. YOU JUST GO WITH WHAT'S COMFORTABLE. IT'S LIKE EVERY MOVE YOU MAKE IT DONE TO PLEASE THE WOMEN. WHAT THE ****. SERIOUSLY JUST WHAT THE **** IS GOING ON. IT'S A ****ING DOOR OPEN IT, WALK THROUGH LIKE "LEFT RIGHT LEFT RIGHT" AND GO WHERE YOU'RE GOING.
AND NO I WILL NOT LAY OFF THE CAPS GODDAM!
If they're in front, I just let them get the door. I'm not a ****ing bellhop.
If they're behind quite a distance, maybe 4-5 strides, I just open the door and keep going.
WTF IS SO HARD PEOPLE. YOU JUST GO WITH WHAT'S COMFORTABLE. IT'S LIKE EVERY MOVE YOU MAKE IT DONE TO PLEASE THE WOMEN. WHAT THE ****. SERIOUSLY JUST WHAT THE **** IS GOING ON. IT'S A ****ING DOOR OPEN IT, WALK THROUGH LIKE "LEFT RIGHT LEFT RIGHT" AND GO WHERE YOU'RE GOING.
AND NO I WILL NOT LAY OFF THE CAPS GODDAM!