"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Opening with a neg-hit?

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Don Juan
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Just thought I’d share this one with you since it was my first neg hit. :p

Was waiting in the cue to get into a club about a month ago and was talking to some bird (9/10) for about a minute, she said “do you like my new hair”, I said, “that half’s cool” (was an asymmetric hair stile). A couple of her mates laughed (guys) so she went and got half the other guys in the cue to tell her how fit she was.

Maybe i was just harsh or ****blocked, oh well.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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^^^ Lol, now you see, that's that's the kind of stuff I come out with on a daily basis. It's kinda a neg-hit but you mostly say it because it's funny as hell and to not say it would be a crime.

I've recently found it hard to pull soley due to the fact that epople in general are ridiculous and it's so bloody hard to take them seriously.

Restraint- that's the name of the game :whistle:.
 
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