"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Opening to girls ruined by Vh1?

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I was watching the episodes of "The pickup artist" online and im wondering, does it make it any more difficult to approach women now? I mean, im still in highschool, so most of the girls i know haven't really seen the show, but what about out in reality? do women just assume you are trying to pick them up now when you approach?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah.... the secret is out, men want to have sex with women!


Seriously though, no the show isn't changing anything.
 
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Dont worry about it. Its a good reason to not use canned openers though, but even still, its all about the delivery.

Say you used some lame ass opinion opener, and the girl says "Umm, I heard that line on tv, dumbass." You can turn it around if you're smart.

For example, you could play it off like: "well, dont look now, but there is a hidden camera on us right now, and if I get you to make out with me in two minutes, I will win a trip for two to be in the audience for the Oprah show. Help me out, I'll take you with me."

Or you could get mad and say "You know what? I made that line up, and those bastards stole it from me. Hell, I've banged at LEAST six hundred girls using that line. So, are you gonna tell me your name, or should I just call you six-hundred and one?"

Or, you can go overboard serious with "Well, I saw you, and I was enchanted by you, and didnt know what to say, and yes, I saw that episode too, and it was the only thing I could think of to come introduce myself with. Is that so wrong?" This would be done in your most 'adorable' delivery. It would probably make a girl melt, if you said it right.

Anyway, its all about the delivery anyway. Its nor what you say, but how you say it.
 
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horaholic said:
Dont worry about it. Its a good reason to not use canned openers though, but even still, its all about the delivery.

Say you used some lame ass opinion opener, and the girl says "Umm, I heard that line on tv, dumbass." You can turn it around if you're smart.

For example, you could play it off like: "well, dont look now, but there is a hidden camera on us right now, and if I get you to make out with me in two minutes, I will win a trip for two to be in the audience for the Oprah show. Help me out, I'll take you with me."

Or you could get mad and say "You know what? I made that line up, and those bastards stole it from me. Hell, I've banged at LEAST six hundred girls using that line. So, are you gonna tell me your name, or should I just call you six-hundred and one?"

Or, you can go overboard serious with "Well, I saw you, and I was enchanted by you, and didnt know what to say, and yes, I saw that episode too, and it was the only thing I could think of to come introduce myself with. Is that so wrong?" This would be done in your most 'adorable' delivery. It would probably make a girl melt, if you said it right.

Anyway, its all about the delivery anyway. Its nor what you say, but how you say it.
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Yeah, what he said. Don't go around using those canned openers, I know half the girls in my math class raised their hands when the teacher asked if anyones seen the show. One of her guy-friends is a pickup artist, and she basically told the whole class how it goes but she doesn't know her stuff too well so I stil got a chance haha =P
 
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