"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was watching the episodes of "The pickup artist" online and im wondering, does it make it any more difficult to approach women now? I mean, im still in highschool, so most of the girls i know haven't really seen the show, but what about out in reality? do women just assume you are trying to pick them up now when you approach?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah.... the secret is out, men want to have sex with women!


Seriously though, no the show isn't changing anything.
 
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Dont worry about it. Its a good reason to not use canned openers though, but even still, its all about the delivery.

Say you used some lame ass opinion opener, and the girl says "Umm, I heard that line on tv, dumbass." You can turn it around if you're smart.

For example, you could play it off like: "well, dont look now, but there is a hidden camera on us right now, and if I get you to make out with me in two minutes, I will win a trip for two to be in the audience for the Oprah show. Help me out, I'll take you with me."

Or you could get mad and say "You know what? I made that line up, and those bastards stole it from me. Hell, I've banged at LEAST six hundred girls using that line. So, are you gonna tell me your name, or should I just call you six-hundred and one?"

Or, you can go overboard serious with "Well, I saw you, and I was enchanted by you, and didnt know what to say, and yes, I saw that episode too, and it was the only thing I could think of to come introduce myself with. Is that so wrong?" This would be done in your most 'adorable' delivery. It would probably make a girl melt, if you said it right.

Anyway, its all about the delivery anyway. Its nor what you say, but how you say it.
 
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horaholic said:
Dont worry about it. Its a good reason to not use canned openers though, but even still, its all about the delivery.

Say you used some lame ass opinion opener, and the girl says "Umm, I heard that line on tv, dumbass." You can turn it around if you're smart.

For example, you could play it off like: "well, dont look now, but there is a hidden camera on us right now, and if I get you to make out with me in two minutes, I will win a trip for two to be in the audience for the Oprah show. Help me out, I'll take you with me."

Or you could get mad and say "You know what? I made that line up, and those bastards stole it from me. Hell, I've banged at LEAST six hundred girls using that line. So, are you gonna tell me your name, or should I just call you six-hundred and one?"

Or, you can go overboard serious with "Well, I saw you, and I was enchanted by you, and didnt know what to say, and yes, I saw that episode too, and it was the only thing I could think of to come introduce myself with. Is that so wrong?" This would be done in your most 'adorable' delivery. It would probably make a girl melt, if you said it right.

Anyway, its all about the delivery anyway. Its nor what you say, but how you say it.
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Yeah, what he said. Don't go around using those canned openers, I know half the girls in my math class raised their hands when the teacher asked if anyones seen the show. One of her guy-friends is a pickup artist, and she basically told the whole class how it goes but she doesn't know her stuff too well so I stil got a chance haha =P
 
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