I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
OK. That's great... but i figured that part... what comes next!?dthomas said:Alright I'm going to share with the top secret, super powerful opener that gets them every time. Are you ready.....
Hi I'm _____________. But shhhhh keep this a secret. We still want people believing that what you say not how you say it is important in starting a conversation. Cheers
Again. That's great... where do you go from here? I need examples! Cos normally i get to this bit and freeze!John888 said:Seriously if you want something that works say
Hey I saw you from over there and I think you're cute
Hey I saw you from over there and wanted to talk to you, but didn't KNow what to say
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.