"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Opening in a Fitness center

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The Mayor

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So I started working out at this new high profile fitness center and I noticed one important thing. There are more HB’s in there, than at any night club in my town. I have never been doing day sarging before, so if any of you have some openers or routines that work in this setting it would be cool if you would write about it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New2Town

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Hey, how are you doing always works. Not to mention the old "Are you using this machine?" and then leading into their name. Or you could offer tips on how to use a certain machine. Easy man.
 
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everywomanshero

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I would just walk up and start talking to them. At this point, I really don't believe it will make any difference. If you're a cool guy most women will be into you. If you're socially inept then there's a chance you can whit a woman into liking you but it's a lot of trouble and it rarely lasts for any length of time.

The fact that you're bothering to work out tells me you probably have a lot going for you. I would just strike up conversations and get to know some of them.
 
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