I have told before about my problem that i eject in unconfortable
situations. Just as reminder here is my old post.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=88041
So i have thought abit about that, and come to the consuclution that i need to feel iam in controll of the situation. To be that its me that need approach. Then i feel like a man, and as iam in controll of the situation, and because i feel my best spot to attract girls in the club scene is at the dancefloor for me, its there i am the most. Ofcourse it will often work not say a word just dance with them. But then i often eject when it starts to get hot. Because i get unconfortable so i need to just make little rapport even if its just a few words.
So what i need is an opener thats feels natural for me to use on the dancefloor, and i know its hard to make an rapport because of the loud music. But just say anyword, because if i just open i know the rest will come naturally. I see guys open girls alot of the dance floor, and always wonder what they say.
The openers i use right now is like. Hi girls, you look really cute here dancing, or i like that and that bla bla. Well it often works but i dont really like thoes openers. Because it feels like i put them on a pedestal when i open with an compliment, but my imagination don't come up with any thing better to open with except compliments.
One time i opened with ooh i like your shoes they look like two polarbears. That worked like a charm but its not often girls have wierd shoes like that
.
I have also used what do you girls think about the music?
and "Hey sweetie why don't you dancing, this is a dancefloor"
So what i need is more inspiration. I would love some C&F lines to open with. So please post your openers here.
situations. Just as reminder here is my old post.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=88041
So i have thought abit about that, and come to the consuclution that i need to feel iam in controll of the situation. To be that its me that need approach. Then i feel like a man, and as iam in controll of the situation, and because i feel my best spot to attract girls in the club scene is at the dancefloor for me, its there i am the most. Ofcourse it will often work not say a word just dance with them. But then i often eject when it starts to get hot. Because i get unconfortable so i need to just make little rapport even if its just a few words.
So what i need is an opener thats feels natural for me to use on the dancefloor, and i know its hard to make an rapport because of the loud music. But just say anyword, because if i just open i know the rest will come naturally. I see guys open girls alot of the dance floor, and always wonder what they say.
The openers i use right now is like. Hi girls, you look really cute here dancing, or i like that and that bla bla. Well it often works but i dont really like thoes openers. Because it feels like i put them on a pedestal when i open with an compliment, but my imagination don't come up with any thing better to open with except compliments.
One time i opened with ooh i like your shoes they look like two polarbears. That worked like a charm but its not often girls have wierd shoes like that
. I have also used what do you girls think about the music?
and "Hey sweetie why don't you dancing, this is a dancefloor"
So what i need is more inspiration. I would love some C&F lines to open with. So please post your openers here.