ok what are the best openers for a bar? Im a good looking dude not to sound ****y but i just freakin dont want to sound cheesy when i go up to a hot girl. i get eye contact a lot and everything. ive been single for a couple of months was in relationships for the last 2 years and have been out of the game until a little bit ago so a little lost. ive seen some of the openers around here but some sound really cheesy. let me know your best stuff. Thanks.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
openers in bars
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The best openers are the ones that are coincidential. By that, I mean openers that are natural and arise from something that has just happened.
Let me give you an example of a couple of openers that I used last night...
I was at a bar, girl is walking past a table of 5/6 guys, and she passes one of them this ugly, fat mo'fo' reached out and grabbed her hand. Then attempted to talk to her. She was just polite, smiled, turned him down gently and carried on walking. As she got close to me she saw me looking at her, smiling. As she got close enough to hear me..
Me: NICE! I think you've pulled there!
Her: ha ha ha ha ha. I know! I cant believe how some guys think they can just grab you like that.
Me: mmmm I know! thats terrible! I NEVER do that!
And then I just grabbed her hand, and gave it a squeeze. She squeezed back. We fluffed abit. I got her to qualify her self to me (Can you cook?) bla bla. Number closed her and moved onto the next bar.
As I was walking in, I noticed two seriously HOT HBs sitting just inside the entrance. I went with the 3 second rule and approached them straight away..
Me: Damn! tell me you didnt see that!
HB7: see what?
Me: phew! not to worry, have a good night
HB7: no tell me! what happened?
Me: well you know when you walk towards the door, and you are not sure whether you are suposed to push or pull??? well I pushed, the door didnt moved and i kinda walked straight into it!
HB7: ha ha ha ha ha. oh.... i cant believed i missed that!
Me: oh gee! thanks! So what brings you ladies here anyway....
Then i slowly progressed, sat down and took it from there...
Also, look up some of mine and Shezz's FRs. They have loads of examples of openers in bars.
Good luck!
Let me give you an example of a couple of openers that I used last night...
I was at a bar, girl is walking past a table of 5/6 guys, and she passes one of them this ugly, fat mo'fo' reached out and grabbed her hand. Then attempted to talk to her. She was just polite, smiled, turned him down gently and carried on walking. As she got close to me she saw me looking at her, smiling. As she got close enough to hear me..
Me: NICE! I think you've pulled there!
Her: ha ha ha ha ha. I know! I cant believe how some guys think they can just grab you like that.
Me: mmmm I know! thats terrible! I NEVER do that!
And then I just grabbed her hand, and gave it a squeeze. She squeezed back. We fluffed abit. I got her to qualify her self to me (Can you cook?) bla bla. Number closed her and moved onto the next bar.
As I was walking in, I noticed two seriously HOT HBs sitting just inside the entrance. I went with the 3 second rule and approached them straight away..
Me: Damn! tell me you didnt see that!
HB7: see what?
Me: phew! not to worry, have a good night
HB7: no tell me! what happened?
Me: well you know when you walk towards the door, and you are not sure whether you are suposed to push or pull??? well I pushed, the door didnt moved and i kinda walked straight into it!
HB7: ha ha ha ha ha. oh.... i cant believed i missed that!
Me: oh gee! thanks! So what brings you ladies here anyway....
Then i slowly progressed, sat down and took it from there...
Also, look up some of mine and Shezz's FRs. They have loads of examples of openers in bars.
Good luck!