Jukeboxhero
Senior Don Juan
Hello, everyone.
I went sarging or well, more like I went to the bar last night to hang out with my friend and maybe meet some other friends of mine. However, I'm still having troubles just starting conversations with girls. I mean I can open by simply saying "Hi, my name is xxx" Which may work sometime but if they're already engaged in conversation or interested in something else you have to do something to "create value" as Style puts it.
So I'm wondering if there is any basic opener's that can be used almost anywhere and reliable methods to create value or keep the women interested in you.
BTW, I do use one "female opinion" opener tonight and this is something that has actually made me a few friends in the past but I'm not sure if it made the difference or if I could've used anything.
Regardless, the opener is
Excuse, could I get a female opinion on something. I'm debating whether to get contacts or perhaps laser surgery but my friend thinks I should keep my glasses. So tell me, do you think I would look better with or without glasses."
Now, I used this about 12 different times and got a variety of results, most girls said I would look better without glasses, some said I had pretty eyes or some compliment, others said keep them or do whatever you want.
I only approached one 2 set with this question and one pretty much ignored me while the other gave me a super-detailed background about the choices of Contact lens vs Lasik and wow! she talked a lot..I didn't mind though, I actually learned something which was unexpected.
Anyways. I would love to hear what openings and keeping the conversationg flowing ideas you guys have and if there is another thread that covers this already let me know. I did a search and didn't find much.
I went sarging or well, more like I went to the bar last night to hang out with my friend and maybe meet some other friends of mine. However, I'm still having troubles just starting conversations with girls. I mean I can open by simply saying "Hi, my name is xxx" Which may work sometime but if they're already engaged in conversation or interested in something else you have to do something to "create value" as Style puts it.
So I'm wondering if there is any basic opener's that can be used almost anywhere and reliable methods to create value or keep the women interested in you.
BTW, I do use one "female opinion" opener tonight and this is something that has actually made me a few friends in the past but I'm not sure if it made the difference or if I could've used anything.
Regardless, the opener is
Excuse, could I get a female opinion on something. I'm debating whether to get contacts or perhaps laser surgery but my friend thinks I should keep my glasses. So tell me, do you think I would look better with or without glasses."
Now, I used this about 12 different times and got a variety of results, most girls said I would look better without glasses, some said I had pretty eyes or some compliment, others said keep them or do whatever you want.
I only approached one 2 set with this question and one pretty much ignored me while the other gave me a super-detailed background about the choices of Contact lens vs Lasik and wow! she talked a lot..I didn't mind though, I actually learned something which was unexpected.
Anyways. I would love to hear what openings and keeping the conversationg flowing ideas you guys have and if there is another thread that covers this already let me know. I did a search and didn't find much.