"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I approached another girl today and I tried out a line my friend told me. It was "Wow do you have a twin sister?" And then I said something like omg, theres a girl in this school that looks just like you.

She was just like "uh no", and just turned away. WTF!?!?!?!?!?!

I know I can't base anything off of that but damn these approaches are going nowhere, it is better than regreting not doing an approach tho.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When you think about it, its not a bad opener. I mean think about it, if someone came up to you and said omg theres someone that looks exactly like you, you would be intreiged and ask a lot of questions. Possibly a weird girl for the second time, i donnno.
 

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dude..dude..dude...

with approaches, don't ever use the "have i seen you before?" or "you look like someone I know" stuff. it usually never works. unless you have like perfect 10 looks and the girl wants you to bone her from the start. try being more creative. maybe something that teases her a little bit.. (but playfully).

try this as an opener.. i haven't used it, but it's something i probably would use, because it's funny. kind of a hit neg, but it breaks the ice.

Find a girl with her thong showing. Shouldn't be too hard. I see that kind of stuff everyday. and be like "Hi, I really like your blue (or whatever color) underwear you have on. My grandma has a pair just like it." it's funny, shows sexual interest. and it's atleast not something like "Did it hurt when you fell from heaven.." kind of ****. so in essense it does show a little confidence.

or use that and try to develope your own thing. just take what you have and run with it. keep funny, confident, and make sure it shows some sort of sexual interest.

gl
 

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Drop the twin sister line and just go straight to "You look so familiar"

I like the underwear thing ^^^ too.

Talking about her clothing, joking with her right off the bat, etc. Is better than an "opener" or a "pickup line". They usually sniff those out right away.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How would you guys approach a girl that is not wearing anything you could make fun of? Let´s say a hb crosses your way. How would you guys approach her?
 

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She wouldnt cross, I'd be on that instantly. ANything... even the weather if you have to,,,
 

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How ´bout this opener:

" Don´t we know each other? Well, your face looks familiar. Where r u going to? "

Good or bad opener?
 

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If you grab your balls and say it, its better than her walking past...

like f uck all the CnF sh!t get the basics sorted 1st
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bro, it works... thats one of the best. It's honest straight to the point and the most open mother fucca you can say...

Make sure you don't look like a f ucking moron though... They'll walk straight through you...

GEt your posture right, loud voice, and be confident... keep the weight balenced. you know the deal
 

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"heyyyy" (smile)
if they start walkin past, "hey come here real quick"

bam. you've got her attention. start gaming.
 

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Keep It Simple

I know I'm an old prick and shouldn't be in this forum, but the best approaches work when they're natural and simple.

Chicks can smell rehearsed stuff a mile away.

Say Hi or how are you doing? etc. and be relaxed and positive.

Cut the canned approaches.
 

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Very true, think about. Some stranger suddenly starts throwing rehearsed lines at you. Bet you'd be freaed.

For what it's worth, my buddies and I used to spend all day at a local eatery and when there were some hotties we'd be "Say, did'nt you go to XXX school?" "Yo, T come here, was'nt she in your year?"
 
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