Open your eyes for the world

[rapsta]

I noticed a great thing today. Lately I've been filling my conscious mind with so much great and less great advices/tips/strategies from this site.

When you think of it.. this s*it really gets to you, or atleast to me. I mean.. I'm analyzing almost everything. If she doesn't call or smile or give up the p*ssy the first night I begin wondering why. And this f*cking "WHY" question really gets the worst of me. It gets me frustrated, even though I ALWAYS keep my cool. It simply gets me down.

This is my tip for the new people on here and maybe some over-analyzers too: if you aren't looking for someone to marry just yet, stop thinking about seducing tecniques. Get out there and figure stuff out for yourself. Forget every structured strategy you read on here.
Seriously, even if you get your feelings hurt, it won't kill you.

Go out there and open your eyes, there are so many things to seeeeeee and ENJOY.. get out of this "matrix" or "web" or whatever the f*ck you can call this mindset.

 

[Wee]

Good post, but I think a little bit is essential.

Kino, C&F, being alpha and knowing she wants to do you - that sh*t is all you need. Honestly all of the NLP and crazy strategies going on... I read that stuff and laugh because there are guys out there that have never read a website on getting women and just do what is natural AND FVCK TWICE AS MANY GIRLS, just from going out and doing there own s**t. If you aren't a born playa though, get Kino, C&F, and being alpha down. Then you are set. Forget all of this other bullsh*t that people try to advertise on here.

 

[rapsta]

Originally posted by Wee
Good post, but I think a little bit is essential.

Kino, C&F, being alpha and knowing she wants to do you - that sh*t is all you need. Honestly all of the NLP and crazy strategies going on... I read that stuff and laugh because there are guys out there that have never read a website on getting women and just do what is natural AND FVCK TWICE AS MANY GIRLS, just from going out and doing there own s**t. If you aren't a born playa though, get Kino, C&F, and being alpha down. Then you are set. Forget all of this other bullsh*t that people try to advertise on here.

That alpha thing is overrated. I mean yeah, look relaxed, be relaxed, that's the s*it right there. But the rest of the alpha cliche is just lame. You become alpha in your INNER self after you've experienced things in life to make you alpha.
Looking around with dimmed eyes and walking all slow and tensed doesn't make you more attractive... humanity does.

Kino is great for avoiding getting stuck in the friend-zone. It's great for many things. But it should be a part of you. You shouldn't sit there in a bar thinking... OH YEAH, KINO! and then just touch her without any "feel" behind your touch.

C&F is great for showing your confidence off and making her less tensed. But that too should be a part of you. If you think too hard about giving the right C&F responses they only make you look dumb. If you give too harsh C&F responses they may offend her because you were trying to look "tougher/cooler" than you actually are.

Just let your mind do what it does. C&F, Kino and all that other stuff that makes you attractive will come itself if you just enjoy what's around you instead of thinking too hard about whats right and wrong.

All this thinking about this stuff makes you tensed.. if not in your body - in your mind..

 

[AETude]

Thats where simple "Just be yourself comes in".

all these info on the site which i believe is of informantional awareness to broaden your mind and body and talk to others, and of what skills the Don Juan , how he potraits certain aspects of seducing and what it takes.

if your all reading and thinking too much about it and stuffing it up in the situation don;t blame the valueable info this site has.

its all about the smoothness, control, thinking steps ahead and everything should be naturally opened for every oppornity to live a happy life and being ontop of things.

 

[Visceral]

In theory, all of this should occur spontaneously, without any thought or willpower involved; instinct should compel us to be masculine and sexual even if it doesn't consciously occur to us to do so.

However, ego, practicality, and morality invariably get in the way, making us aware of our actions and obliging us to suppress our instinctive drives for selfish reasons as often as for altruistic ones.

 

[Wee]

Aight well I was just saying what I did because back when I was completely AFC, I started getting David DeAngelo's newsletter thing which basically was saying "BE C&F" over and over again in every email. After I got that in my head it was much easier to get girls attention. Whenever a guy asks me for advice (because they all see what a pimp I am haha) I give him the basics of C&F and send him on his way. I think after you are aware of what is going on in her mind and yours and aware of everything around you, it is easier to naturally start being C&F. This same thing goes for Kino and being alpha. If what you are saying is true ("everything should be natural you shouldn't have to read this site, blah blah blah") then this whole entire webpage would be of no use to anyone and wouldn't get any hits. It has obviously worked for a bunch of people so reading up on some sh*t DOES help.

 

[rapsta]

Originally posted by Visceral
In theory, all of this should occur spontaneously, without any thought or willpower involved; instinct should compel us to be masculine and sexual even if it doesn't consciously occur to us to do so.

However, ego, practicality, and morality invariably get in the way, making us aware of our actions and obliging us to suppress our instinctive drives for selfish reasons as often as for altruistic ones.

good point

 

[ImpatientFire]

Thanks for opening my eyes, I over analyse everything. I'm gonna go out there and let whatever happens happen :woo:

 

[rapsta]

Originally posted by ImpatientFire
Thanks for opening my eyes, I over analyse everything. I'm gonna go out there and let whatever happens happen :woo:

Hehe you sarcastic man? I'm serious about this I tend to over analyze stuff way too much instead of just enjoying the things that i recieve.