Franky Four Fingers
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Would be great if you could list all of them out here on SS. That would be very helpful to use all.jophil28 said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"Open the door or Take me back to my car"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Die Hard
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I understand and appreciate what you did there, Jophil. Still, I'd be very interested to hear your thoughts on the matters I discussed. I don't think it's always possible to process a woman's statements and turn the situation into your advantage. The situations I described in my earlier post will happen from time to time (I reckon even with you) and I'd like to hear how other people deal with them.