Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I smell the strong stench of jealousy.Danger said:Did cordon mention his 6 figure income yet?
Those are the best parts of these threads.
Hahaha! Yeah cordon is a real tool.
"I'm a billionaire and I have 10 playbody bunnies living in my mansion."
The internet is a funny place...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
All I've seen of you is a geek boy trying to hit on some girls and getting rejected pretty much all the time. Are you and Winston bro's? Sure look like it.TheAsianLoverReturns said:They're on the youtube videos idiot.
I haven't seen any proof of your women. Any jackass can post pictures of random women.
cordoncordon said:I actually drive a 2008 Black Dodge Ram 4 x 4. I'm a truck guy, always have been.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
cordoncordon said:I smell the strong stench of jealousy.
I make a good living trading stocks. I have an attractive gf. You act like that is some sort of miracle. Of course for some of you clowns, maybe it is.
cordoncordon said:All I've seen of you is a geek boy trying to hit on some girls and getting rejected pretty much all the time. Are you and Winston bro's? Sure look like it.
You're need for attention and validation by trying to post endless video's and made up field reports on the internet just screams of an inferiority complex. Your attempts to engage white girls in conversation, asking them inane questions, looks especially desperate. Small c0ck?
cordoncordon said:Only because its a super slow day in the market today,and I know how much this irritates some of you. This is one of my accounts>my TD Ameritrade account...totals so far for the year. First half of the year was great, last few months very slow.
Totals:
Adj cost 3,937,864.25
Adj proceeds 4,456,545.89
Adj gain ($) 518,681.64
Adj gain (%) 15.55
I think I have posted more than enough pics of my gf on here. One was on her couch, two in Vegas-one at Aria, one at the Wynn. Need more details?TheAsianLoverReturns said:I've posted a lot more proof than you.
The interview videos are just that, interviews dumb ass...
Take a look at the online videos. Take a look at the pictures of the women that send me their phone numbers. Those are the women I date. Those are the women I f*ck.
I'm still waiting for your proof nerd.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Wow you are so stupid. Only 5 of the 40 videos I have are interviews.cordoncordon said:I think I have posted more than enough pics of my gf on here. One was on her couch, two in Vegas-one at Aria, one at the Wynn. Need more details?
As far as your videos? I don't believe a word of it. All I see is you interviewing a bunch of average looking white chicks, them looking at you like you are some sort of crazy person, and you thinking that they want you.
As far as who you fvck? IF you fvck anyone, which I highly doubt, (maybe Winston??) I can't even imagine what they look like.
Because in the words of Arnold in the great movie Predator, "You are one UGLY MUTHA FVCKER".
Any guy that has to resort to some crazy youtube video called the Asian Lover show, is imo a guy who has WAY to much time on his hands and is most assuredly not getting laid. Just reeks of being desperate. I don't think you'll see any normal, good looking, put together, men who are getting laid doing such a thing.
You need a gimmick. That's a shame.
I do swing trading as well. In my opinion, it's the best way to play the markets.Danger said:Actually, I do a lot of trading myself and if you know what you are doing, you can beat the HFT's. In fact, they really have no bearing what-so-ever on my trading.
But then, I don't do day-trading, what I do is called swing-trading.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
cordoncordon said:Don't worry be happy.
cordoncordon said:I know they are fatties because that is what you are into but fat people need lovin' too!
Darwin's theories at work.mrRuckus said:No, they don't. They need social shaming and eradication rather than chumps that confirm their belief that being fat is okay.
If men would stop fvcking fat chicks, there'd be no more fat chicks.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.