Open Relationships?

[Wickston1488]

I'm a young guy in college; and every single red-pill source is telling me not to get into a relationship and emotionally invested. AND YET there is a nice girl I am considering a relationship with. I am aware that this is the prime years of my youth though and am reluctant to place any significant time with one girl or become monogamous and loose all my plates. I have been considering asking her for an open relationship.

Is it possible to have a successful open relationship, and what rules have contributed to it's success?

 

[Moroder]

Is it possible to have a successful open relationship (...)?

Rumor has it that usually one party has tons of sex and fun with others while the other party has zero or little sex with others and and sooner or later defaults to old-school jealousy and heartbreak.

 

[Fireballs]

It can be done but it won't last long.

 

[Newby 15]

What does it matter if it's an open relationship or a plate? She still will bang other guys when you are not with her.

 

[Epimanes]

What does it matter if it's an open relationship or a plate? She still will bang other guys when you are not with her.

Hey newb.. You can't generalize women as such because not all women cheat. Isn't "spinning plates" the same as cheating just with a fancy nice name? I am betting that most guys here who spin plates and call women *****s for cheating don't tell their women that they are spinning plates.

I can see it now..

PUA: hey babe.. Wana be my plate?
Chick: sure! how many plates you got?
PUA: oh a whole china cabinet full
Chick: ok can I be sundays plate? My other plates wana fvck me on the other days.

*rolls eyes*

Epi

 

[Newby 15]

Hey newb.. You can't generalize women as such because not all women cheat. Isn't "spinning plates" the same as cheating just with a fancy nice name? I am betting that most guys here who spin plates and call women *****s for cheating don't tell their women that they are spinning plates.

I can see it now..

PUA: hey babe.. Wana be my plate?
Chick: sure! how many plates you got?
PUA: oh a whole china cabinet full
Chick: ok can I be sundays plate? My other plates wana fvck me on the other days.

*rolls eyes*

Epi

Why the sarcasm j.o.? Never said "all women cheat". Why are you saying that? If she wants an open relationship she most likely wants other d1ck besides his. Same as with a FB. Did you forget your old college days in how women act?

 

[MOTU]

OP, what do you want to be different than it is now? What are you trying to accomplish by calling what you have an open relationship?

Do I assume correctly that your current state is that you are fvcking this object of your affection and other chicks too? Do you know if she is fvcking anyone else? Does she know you are?

 

[Boxer00]

It's best not to have a relationship if you want other people.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Look dude, open relationships are basically a friends with benefits. There is almost no difference. Maybe like a best-friends with benefits I guess but overall, it's the same exact stuff. No true difference IMO.