Open Letter to Wutang and the Height Obsessed

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

PeeGee

Senior Don Juan

Apr 28, 2008

There's a lot of pointless topics. This is one of the most silly of them all.

This is a forum about improving yourself, isn't it? How do you improve on your height?? It's not something you can do anything (short of surgery that doesn't really raise your height that much) about. You can exercise and lose weight, lift weights and get buff, work on your social skills and game. You can't do much about your height. We're mostly all adults here -- we're done growing.

Topics like height, d1ck size, ethnicity, etc are pointless.

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.