"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tseluca

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I know taking advice from women is a big no no on this board, but if any of you want a female perspective on anything, just ask me in this thread.

You can PM me if you want to do it annonmosly, for fear of being ridiculed by fellow DJ's

I will give honest answers. And don't be afraid to ask about anything, all topics are welcome, I am here to help
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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Some women actually understand themselves and DO give good advice. Wyldfire and Penkitten come to mind, on these boards.

I think the "don't take advice from women" is more pointed towards the younger women who REALLY haven't got a clue what it is they want and can't put into words what really turns them on.

Why not just take part in our discussions, if you feel you can contibute positively to it, and not give "bad" advice.
 

tseluca

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My whole point is this:

Your DJ tactics are geared toward picking up women who don't know what they want.

Do you really want a woman who doesnt know what she wants?

One day she is going to wake up and decide it is not you, or she is not sure if it is you and she wil stray.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Originally posted by tseluca
My whole point is this:

Your DJ tactics are geared toward picking up women who don't know what they want.

Do you really want a woman who doesnt know what she wants?

One day she is going to wake up and decide it is not you, or she is not sure if it is you and she wil stray.
Read my new thread... I just came on here specifically to write it and you'll see that i'm not LIKE some of the other guys.... I'm on the same page as you.
 

saki

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tseluca, I have briefly looked at some of your posts and you are just a classic example of an AW. All you want to do is get us guys to post for you so you can fullfill your aw fantasies. It is pretty pathetic when a girl comes on here trying to get off on flame wars. I believe you are upset because you have probably been played by a few guys who have learned and applied this information and therefore, you are trying to corrupt it. You have been burned in the past and have resorted to childish games to give yourself a boost.You could never possibly succeed. There are other female members on here that actually enjoy being part of this community with good intentions unlike yourself who is only here for a self esteem boost. You should channel your low self-esteem elsewhere. Who knows your probably not even a female?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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