"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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OOOOOOOOOOH, new school, what a great opportunity!

TheWanderer

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I'm gonna be a junior and I'll be attending a new school this fall. Well, don't get me wrong, I was in the in-crowd at my old school, I mean, I wasn't "the one" but I did hang out with all the "cool" kids. Anyways, I switched schools because of financial and athletic reasons.

But now I'm thinking, I have a chance to be "the one" you know, the person that everyone looks up to, loved by a few, hated by most, respected by all. The way I see it, is I'll probably have all eyes on me, since I'll be the "new kickass football player" "the new hot guy" haha.

So I already started this by working out at my new school's weight room a couple of times. Needless to say, I impressed the coaches since I can squat more than twice my body weight and bench more than most linemen. Well, from this week on I'll be attending the football workouts regularly. So, do any of you have any advice (besides working hard and being strong) on how to leave a great impression on the rest of the football team for these few weeks before school?

Anyways, football should help me out since that way I'll meet some of the "cool kids" and once school starts I can hang out with them, which should give me some social proof while I meet new people. Which takes me to the girls. Oooooooh, the girls at this school are known for being really hot and horny, haha. So I'm thinking of different approaches to try once school starts......a good one I came up with was while in a boring class, I'll write a note to a hot girl sitting by me that'll say "hey, your hot, whats ur name?" lol, the whole "hey, your hot" thing is a great pickup line my friend came up with, and it works.

But, I guess I kinda know what I'll have to do, in a way it'll be like freshmen year all over, meeting new people, so I know I just have to be friendly, respect everyone, and basically be me (people say my personality is kinda like stiffler:confused: good thing?). But I guess the whole point of this post, is to ask for any extra advice you guys can give me about going from "the new guy" to "the one" at a new school. And yes, I've read the bible, haha.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thats great for you, youre on the right track, but do you really think writing a note to a girl sitting next to you being a junior is really going to get her attention, or give off a good impression of you..... sometimes writing notes in like a playful manner and once you know the girl and she knows you isnt all that bad, it can actually be fun.....but a note to introduce yourself ask her for her name and tell her shes hot?
 

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I'm gonna be a junior at a different hs this fall as well. I'm hoping to do better in the smaller environment that it is. I didn't have much social proof at my old school but I'm lookin' to rotate that 180 degrees at the new one and raise my grades up because it's easier than the former school.
I'm taking public speaking as an elective to sharpen my social skills. I already acted ****y & funny towards my counselor. These decent girls in the halls were already talking about me positively and I just smiled at them. They dont have indoor track :mad: but I'll have to wait for outdoor season.
 

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no indoor track what kinda school is that? oh yea right like if every school was supposed to have them
 

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I'll be a sophmore at my new school. The only problem is my dad keeps delaying the move (doctors needs their license before they could work ) so im not getting the head start i was hoping for. I'm playing football, im pretty good i was a freshmen and after the jr high season i was invited to play varisty. Only reason i was popular (i think) is because i was the only black guy in my grade and one of 4 including myself in the entire high school. Most people liked me except for one group of girls because i blew off their leader.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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