ONS with a BPD *must read*

[j0504s]

Alright this Saturday night at 3 Am I receive a Text, from a chick saying "send me a pic" obviously she wants a D1ck pic, so I send her regular picture of me and put a after it. she responds saying very funny, but u know what I want...So I say "why don’t you come over and see it for your self".... She respond OK! (this girl like 3 days before randomly sent me a T1t Pic of her.)

She comes over I take her straight to my room and it’s on...I made her Cvm multiple times obvs...to the point where she said its been a long time since I have been with someone who actually knows what they are doing...regardless even though that may not even be true. I want to get to the point.

She told me she was BPD diagnosed at 14 yrs old....and I was like do u mind If i pick your brain and we got into a very deep convo about how her mind works....she thought I was a genius b/c the mass of amounts of info I got from this site, I pretty much predicted how she feels and why she does things. later in the conversation b/c I honestly don’t know this girl well at all...I find out she had dated a good friend of mine and I had no idea…she tells me she broke up with him b/c she got bored she needs excitement and she really cant even say why...so we said it was best to not tell ppl about this. and I said "if you can keep this a secret we can continue to do this" she responds "isn’t that generally how it works that we will fvck again"

She then asked me about my EX that I dated for a year who is BPD...I was telling her how she tattoed My initials on her, she asked if i had a pic....So i showed her a naked pic of my ex who has an absolutely redic body....The girl I was with had an ok body but nowhere near my ex....and all I’m thinking omg in this BPDs mind right now she has subconsitcly been like wow his ex is so hot he not going to want to be with me (which is 100% true I have zero interest in this girl except for sex and wouldn’t care if we fvcked again or not).

I actually had a date on Sunday that I missed b/c i was up so late...and I told this chick...about it...I was looking though my text at one point and she was watching like a hawk what chicks I was texting....I didnt care, like it didn’t matter to me....if you’re gonna text me and act like a HO im gonna treat u like one...

she then started telling me how she stopped speaking to her dad so she goes for guys,that shee feels she needs to prove things to...for example; she does AN@L b/c she wants to prove to guys she can.....

Later after we got up at like 2 pm on Sunday....we went for coffee and she told she had been raped...before....she told me she told me b/c she likes to see how ppl will react...also told me she got molested....with I think alot of chicks so they got raped b/c they feel like they mad bad decisions... she agreed....she tells me how she feels alone that ppl aren’t including her...and im liek its prob in your head, and she tells me GET THIS" I cant stop thing" "my mind leads from this to that" (HAMSTER WHEEL BABY)

She then was talking about all these things we need to do next time (obviously I suggested a threesome)....like she’s like lets keep quiet and do it again bla blah blah.....I feel like she only said this b/c i wanted it quiet b/c of my friend


Anyways...I get a text last night

"I had fun and last night was really good, I like hanging out with you. But that was a onetime thing. I hope you can respect that"

I respond with "100% cool with that, I was thinking the same thing but I didn’t want to hurt you"

Ok this was one of the most insightful experiences to. I actually feel horrible for these chicks man they are super sick and not to be messed with in LTRs, these girls are not datable literally.
What I personally think, this a I’m gonna leave you b/c I know you will leave me…b/c I made it clear there is no chance I’m gonna date you, I will only **** you if no one knows…every girl wants a relationship and attention, she wasn’t getting it from me.


Thought, Comments Critisim

Keep Spinning BOYZ,
J0504S

 

[CaConfused]

Alright this Saturday night at 3 Am receive a Text, from a chick saying "send me a pic" obviously she wants a D1ck pic, so I send her regular picture of me and put a after it. she responds saying very funny, but u know what I want...So I say why don’t you come over and see it for your self.... She respond OK! (this girl like 3 days before randomly sent me a T1t Pic of her.

She comes over I take her straight to my room and it’s on...I made her *** multiple times obvs...to the point where she said its been a long time since I have been with someone who actually knows what they are doing...regardless even though that may not even be true. i want to get to the point.

She told me she was BPD diagnosed at 14 yrs old....and I was like do u mind If i pick your brain and we got into a very deep convo about how her mind works....she thought I was a genius b/c the mass of amounts of info I got from this site, I pretty much predicted how she feel and why she does things. later in the conversation b/c I honestly don’t know this girl well at all...I find out she had dated a good friend of mine and I had no idea…she tells me she broke up with him b/c she got bored she needs excitement and she really cant even say why...so we said it was best to not tell ppl about this. and I said "if you can keep this a secret we can continue to do this" she responds "isn’t that generally how it works that we will fvck again"

She then asked me about my EX that I dated for a year who is BPD...I was telling her how she tattoed My initials on her, she asked if i had a pic....So i showed her a naked pic of my ex who has an absolutely redic body....The girl I was with had an ok body but nowhere near my ex....and all I’m thinking omg in this BPDs mind right now she has subconsitcly been like wow his ex is so hot he not going to want to be with me (which is 100% true I have zero interest in this girl except for sex and wouldn’t care if we fvcked again or not).

I actually had a date on Sunday that I missed b/c i was up so late...and I told this chick...about it...I was looking though my text at one point and she was watching like a hawk what chicks I was texting....I didnt care, like it didn’t matter to me....if you’re gonna text me and act like a HO im gonna treat u like one...

she then started telling me how she stopped speaking to her dad so she goes for guys, and tried to prove stuff to them....for example doing, she does AN@L b/c she wants to prove to guys she can.....

Later after we got up at like 2 pm on Sunday....we went for coffee and she told she had been raped...before....she told me she told me b/c she likes to see how ppl will react...also told me she got molested....with I think alot of chicks so they got raped b/c they feel like they mad bad decisions... she agreed....she tells me how she feels alone that ppl aren’t including her...and im liek its prob in your head, and she tells me GET THIS" I cant stop thing" "my mind leads from this to that" (HAMSTER WHEEL BABY)

She then was talking about all these things we need to do next time (obviously I suggested a threesome)....like she’s like lets keep quiet and do it again bla blah blah.....


Anyways...I get a text last night

"I had fun and last night was really good, I like hanging out with you. But that was a onetime thing. I hope you can respect that"

I respond with "100% cool with that, I was thinking the same thing but I didn’t want to hurt you"

Ok this was one of the most insightful experiences to. I actually feel horrible for these chicks man they are super sick and not to be messed with in LTRs, these girls are not datable literally.
What I personally think, this a I’m gonna leave you b/c I know you will leave me…b/c I made it clear there is no chance I’m gonna date you, I will only **** you if no one knows…every girl wants a relationship and attention, she wasn’t getting it from me.


Thought, Comments Critisim

Keep Spinning BOYZ,
J0504S

In the last year I have come across a lot of girls that have been abused or raped. It is sickening how common it has become.

Once a girl has been violated like that, it really messes up their head. They can't trust guys, they have triggers, they can't enjoy sex, or they keep having it to try to bury prior memories.

It feels wrong to call them undateable because of something that is not their fault, but that is the reality if you want to protect yourself.

 

[j0504s]

In the last year I have come across a lot of girls that have been abused or raped. It is sickening how common it has become.

Once a girl has been violated like that, it really messes up their head. They can't trust guys, they have triggers, they can't enjoy sex, or they keep having it to try to bury prior memories.

It feels wrong to call them undateable because of something that is not their fault, but that is the reality if you want to protect yourself.

I have to agree it does feel wrong to say that but it is the reality. I actually feel so bad for them, they are empty at all time, trying to fill a void of vlidation, like taking their next hti of crack...I used that anology with her and shes like thats the best way to describe it....its so sad man, shes forever empty unless she does some serious therapy which isnt ven guranteed to help....

 

[Handsfull]

Yes. BPD's are in mental and emotional prison. It's really sad to obvserve. They are totally identified with their mind and possessed by emotions they don't understand. They're self loathing. They crave pain and drama like a drug. They don't care if they are doing the hurting or if they are getting hurt, as long as there is pain. They ARE always empty, but experience short bursts of utter exctacy, then back to the regular misery is "them". They cant even fathom how life could be different. They have nothing to compare it to. It's just them and their reality.

 

[expos]

BPD is code for RUN THE OTHER WAY.

The pain and misery they inflict on you will literally destroy you and put you into therapy. They will level even the toughest guys. I hope you can handle it if she makes it an all out quest to get back with you...because the temptation will be there. I would delete and block her numbers for your own safety.

 

[5string]

http://gettinbetter.com/anycost.html

Be careful.

 

[j0504s]

I want you all to know this was more of informative thread to show the mind of BPD...I dated a BPD for a year if u guys remmber what brought me to this site...She tatooed my Initials on the left side of her ribcage, I went through hell...but now i totally know to RUN...It was crazy she told me she BPD stright up...it was prob some form of minipulation to try and get me to white knight her...she wanted me to save her...but hell no....I worked hard to get to the level im on, nothing will comprimize my integrity!!! I really just wanted to show the people who really dont know about this stuff. its super serious and to be avoided...but honestly sometimes ppl must touch that hot stove to not try it again...b/c once u exprienced this u know to run....

I do feal her text was minipulation to try to get my undying love in affection...she knows my value is very high and that i am alpha with everyone...and have crazy social proof....I do think the picture i showed her of my EX made her know I would never do more then bang this girl...I will not be suprized if she trys to conatc me soon/send a nude pic...abondoning before she could be abandonded...so I know its not whorth ****ing this chick again. Im 100% never gonna contact her but will not be suprized if she tries to...I just hope this could help people to see inside the mind...5string btw I love that article when read it in the past gave me chills.

Keep spinning BOYZ,
J0504S

 

[j0504s]

Keep in mind that many women claim to have been abused, but never were. Don't automatically assume what they say is gospel. That is the white-knight within you looking for a soul to protect.

Well I deff. didnt act simpathetic to her...if you read the orginal post, I even said to her alot of Women claim rape and abuse b/c they woke up the next morning and felt they made a bad discsion....but you are right Danger 100%. This thread has alot of good stuff in it...Im glad I had the exprience that i could pick this womens brain, and use the my knowlldge on this to confirm this first hand....Id like peoples opinion, on the prupose of the text do u guys agree. with my opinion on it?

 

[plate's_empty]

She then was talking about all these things we need to do next time (obviously I suggested a threesome)....like she’s like lets keep quiet and do it again bla blah blah.....I feel like she only said this b/c i wanted it quiet b/c of my friend


I get a text last night

"I had fun and last night was really good, I like hanging out with you. But that was a onetime thing. I hope you can respect that"

Total BPD behavior. You responded well. If you're going to play instead of run, you can't let anything they say fvck with your head. You seem to know this already though.

My ex BPD tried to get a relationship with me where we were just having sex. I was thinking, yeah, once a week, like every Tuesday I go over for some action, no problems there right? Wrong. BPD's don't know what they want from one minute to the next. The last thing you can do with a BPD is actually try to plan something. They're horrible at it, they do what they want when they want to.

If you're really going to mess around with this girl, I would only keep her as a booty call, as in wait for her to booty call you. That's it. If she tries to make plans for a future date, don't agree to them. You'll end up setting aside a Saturday night only for her to cancel or just totally disappear, and that's when the mind fvcking begins.

Also, I wouldn't suggest showing girls naked pictures of other girls..... Do you want a girl to send you naked pics trusting you won't show them to anyone? If so, don't show her naked pics of previous girls. If you want to show off your ex's then show her a pic of them with clothes on LOL. Plus, that just comes off as a little strange...

 

[j0504s]

Total BPD behavior. You responded well. If you're going to play instead of run, you can't let anything they say fvck with your head. You seem to know this already though.

My ex BPD tried to get a relationship with me where we were just having sex. I was thinking, yeah, once a week, like every Tuesday I go over for some action, no problems there right? Wrong. BPD's don't know what they want from one minute to the next. The last thing you can do with a BPD is actually try to plan something. They're horrible at it, they do what they want when they want to.

If you're really going to mess around with this girl, I would only keep her as a booty call, as in wait for her to booty call you. That's it. If she tries to make plans for a future date, don't agree to them. You'll end up setting aside a Saturday night only for her to cancel or just totally disappear, and that's when the mind fvcking begins.

Also, I wouldn't suggest showing girls naked pictures of other girls..... Do you want a girl to send you naked pics trusting you won't show them to anyone? If so, don't show her naked pics of previous girls. If you want to show off your ex's then show her a pic of them with clothes on LOL. Plus, that just comes off as a little strange...

I dont plan on perssuing her at all, If she decides to booty call me again. we will see how I feel. I would never ever ever date this girl....I have to agree about the naked pic, I wasnt even showing it to show her naked, she wanted to see the tatoo of my initials, but it was wrong of me....and something I will never do again...